Running out of time

[Vixenmarsh]

So I've asked the same question before but I'm still going crazy and stressing over it.


My LMP was March 22nd, and I had bleeding on April 19th but it was literally a spot.
I had sex with my ex May 16th-May 24th. Basically we had sex every day, and it was all unprotected.

I had sex with an older guy (like 50 yo) and we used condoms. We were both totally sober, and we both swear the condom wasn't broken, we had no fore play etc. that was May 31st.

I took a pregnancy test June 6th, and it had a faint line that went away after five minutes.
I started feeling sick june 19th and took a test June 26th and it was positive.

At 6 +7 I measured an EDD of Feb 18th
At 9 +1 a different doctor measured feb 18th
At 18 +5 she measured 20 +3
At 34 +5 she is measuring an EDD of Feb 21st

So now she's measuring as if the other guy (not my ex) is the father. I have 3d ultrasounds and her face resembles my exes mom and sister.
My family and friends who I trust to tell all say I'm freaking out, even the other guy. But I don't want to have my ex at the birth and then my kid turn out to be Asian. That would ruin my life, I would never want to have the other guys baby.

[Vixenmarsh]

Thanks Annie, I definitely think you're right, I need a trip to my therapist...

[AnnieBrooke]

Let him.  I think you were told that later ultrasounds are inaccurate for dating pregnancy.

[Vixenmarsh]

Yes I understand, a lot of people tell me I'm stressing too much over it and I will laugh when my baby comes out looking like my ex.
I'm just shocked that at 35 weeks she is now measuring the exact due date it would have been if I ovulated on the day I had sex with guy B.
So I'm wondering what to do, my ex wants to help name baby and be there for delivery

[AnnieBrooke]

What does "I would never want to have the other guy's baby" mean?  It's obviously too late for an abortion even if you would have considered one earlier, and I don't think you were doing that.

I looked over your old posts and it looks like you have had several techs or other medical people tell you that this is your boyfriend's baby, as well as friends, as well as people on this site.  I am not sure what further insight you will get that you aren't willing to be convinced by from medical people who have your records in front of them and the films from the early ultrasounds.  If the anxiety is killing you, (since it doesn't really sound like you have anything to doubt in your numbers), treat the anxiety.  It is never a bad idea to see a counselor or therapist when you are in a stressful time.  It can ease your mind a lot.