Who is the father of my baby?

[sarabee23]

I will be 12 weeks pregnant on Friday.  I had intercourse with my ex-boyfriend on June 23rd I am almost certain I had my period 3 days later and then I had intercourse with my new boyfriend on July-10th.  I am concerned that the baby may be my ex's instead of my current boyfriend. If I counted correct from June 23rd til Sept. 15th would be 12 weeks excatly and I would only be 9weeks if I got pregnant on July 10th.  I have not had a ultrasound  yet my doctor just checked me and I have not told him my concerns about my ex-boyfriend being the father. Could I have had a period 3 days after intercourse and still be pregnant since I do believe I had a period at the end of June.  My period in May was on the 30th so would I have even been fertile around June 23rd anyway? I am so confused and don't know if I should tell my new boyfriend about me and my ex having sex or not in fear that he may leave me. What should I do and who do you think the father is?

[mamabear72]

Sara,

When doc's calculate how many weeks preg you are I believe it's calculated from the first day of your las period. Could this be why they think your 11 weeks along?

[sarabee23]

I did tell him that my last period was June 26th and the nurse did say they go by your last period.  But when the doctor did his physical exam of my uterus he said it feels like I am about 11 weeks along.  Can they tell by just feeling you?  And even if I did have a period after having intercourse since it was only 3 days later could I still of been pregnant when I had my period on June 28th.

[J.Lo52]

Well You are pregnant by your EX BOYFRIEND! run to the nearest abortion clinic... your ovulation period was 14 days after your last cycle before that... which makes it week 3... then your period is on week 4...

[mum2beagain]

Umm it's probably a bit late for that if you check the dat of this question she was 12 weeks pregnant in Spetember 06!

[ang7880]

And who are you to tell her to go to her nearest abortion clinic?  I'd love to know what sara chose to do or who's it was....but it's not your place to advise someone to terminate their pregnancy.   In my opinion, it is a child, not a choice!  It is not OUR decision to make...nor hers...only God's.  But that's my own personal opinion.  I know this is a controversial subject for many...

[jenuine]

I understand what u are going through...personal experience..I'm going thru the same thing right now but i spoke to my doctor @ my situation and she told me not to worry because all my dates and numbers match...i had sex w/  someone else in Dec.2006 and got period Jan. 12, 2007 and meanwhile my boyfriend and i were having sex...On Feb. 12 i found out i was pregnant and am now 34 wks pregnant!! The reason i am so worried is because i had a ultrasound 3 days ago and the technician zoomed on the baby's face and the nose is nothing like my or my boyfriend's...I know ultrasound pics are not like regular pics but the picture is haunting me...i even showed my boyfriend and he was like where did he get that nose from...so that put me even more on edge...i don't want to tell him @ what happened in December for the same reason u don't want to tell your boyfriend....So even though i have my doctor telling me not to worry, i can't help it..i'm very worried...I'd suggest you speak to your doctor and see what she/he has to say @ it...if the number's do not match i'm pretty sure they will let you know!!! I hope all works out for you..God Bless!!!