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Who is the father of my baby?

I will be 12 weeks pregnant on Friday.  I had intercourse with my ex-boyfriend on June 23rd I am almost certain I had my period 3 days later and then I had intercourse with my new boyfriend on July-10th.  I am concerned that the baby may be my ex's instead of my current boyfriend. If I counted correct from June 23rd til Sept. 15th would be 12 weeks excatly and I would only be 9weeks if I got pregnant on July 10th.  I have not had a ultrasound  yet my doctor just checked me and I have not told him my concerns about my ex-boyfriend being the father. Could I have had a period 3 days after intercourse and still be pregnant since I do believe I had a period at the end of June.  My period in May was on the 30th so would I have even been fertile around June 23rd anyway? I am so confused and don't know if I should tell my new boyfriend about me and my ex having sex or not in fear that he may leave me. What should I do and who do you think the father is?
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Most likely you conceived on May 29 with the first guy. That was day 12 of your cycle. That's when I got pregnant. Plus the sperm can survive up to three days in the Fallopian tubes. However, that is based on a 26-28 day cycle, which is average. For you to have conceived on June 3 would mean you ovulated on day 17 or later, which is less likely. That would be based on a 31-day or longer cycle. I guess it depends on how long your cycles are. Of course, your baby is now nearly two and a half as I write this, and now I am wondering how all you ladies are doing now!
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i had a similar problem as many of u but i m also stress and need some one who are professor about getting pregnancy. my period is on 6th April and on 18th April i had sex with my ex boy friend and then on 22 to 24 April i had sex with my husband so now 13 july, i m 13 weeks of pregnant i want to know who is father of my baby please have anyone help me cuz i m so bad now  
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Omg ! Please someone help me I am losing my mind ! I went on spring break with my bf and we did it for the whole week from Monday the 2nd till my period came that thursday the 5th . We did it like 3 times a day and then I bought a pregnancy test to see if i was pregnant or not because it was already mid of may and I started to feel the preg. symptoms and it came out positive ! But then I did the horrible thing and I cheated in him with my ex on my last day of my period , the 15th and the 20th of that month ! So I am not sure who's the father and I don't want my bf to know that I cheated on him so what should I do :'( . This past thursday I became 11 weeks pregnant !
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When I found out I was pregnant the doctor told me I was 11 weeks that was Jan 21 I had sex with a guy on the 26 of November and my due date was August 12 and had him the 18 who is the father
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According to the doctor I am 7 weeks pregnant, he confirmed this after the ultrasound. So my last period was 3-05-12.... and i have sleeping with the boyfriend the whole month of march, on April 1st i made the biggest mistake of my life and slept with another man, but right away took the morning after pill. So when i told the doc about this he said i got pregnant on the 4th of April, and i saw the doc on may 4, that would make me 4 weeks right???. what my question is, who is the father....my boyfriend or the other guy.

the doctor really scared the heck out me, because this whole time i was thinking it was my bf.  
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My LMP was December 24,2011. My boyfriend and i had sex on December 29,2011 and January 7,2012. Then i cheated on him and had sex with a friend on January 10, 2012. My doctor said that my due date is on October 1,2012, Im 16 weeks pregnant now. And haven't had any ultrasounds yet. Im so confused. Who can be the father of my baby? PLEASE HELP ME.
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