Paternity

[Ash421]

Hello everyone I had sex with one guy one day and oral the next day all within my fertile window I am not 23 weeks pregnant..
The guy i had sex with did not pull out.
What are the chances of me becoming pregnant with oral guy because I may have gotten some of his semen from my hand near my vagina. I really don't remember. Just assuming I had how common is it for a small amount of semen to go from
My hand onto my vagina and swim up? Please I know to most this sounds stupid but I'm loosing sleep over this. I'm not sure how careful I was!!!!

[Ash421]

I called Ddc they set me up I should be begging my results in 10
Days are they reliable?

[AnnieBrooke]

They are one of the two I would recommend.

[Ash421]

No I didn't insert anything if I touched my self it would have been briefly just as in readjusting myself.
My underwear were never even had my underwear off to be completely honest with you. I had a unltrasound and I conceived between the 23-26th of May. Both incidents occured on the 24th.
But I had sex with my boyfriend unprotected 17th-24th (ever other day).

[Ash421]

I meant my underwear were never off.

[AnnieBrooke]

So, your due date is around February 13?

[Ash421]

No February 16

[AnnieBrooke]

And you got that from an early ultrasound, and it hasn't changed during you pregnancy?

[AnnieBrooke]

How early was your first ultrasound?

[Ash421]

I think it was six weeks.
Do you really think this is possible?

[AnnieBrooke]

You asked about something that you don't even know for sure happened.  

From what you said, I don't think you inserted sperm into your vagina, so the question seems moot to me.  

But you asked if a woman can get pregnant from sperm in the vagina that arrived from her hand.  The answer to that is that it's theoretically possible for a woman to take some semen in her hand (that has sperm in it) and insert it into her vagina and get pregnant.  It would be difficult to do.  The semen would have to protect the sperm from being exposed to air, the trip to the vagina would have to be fast, and the insertion would have to have found some vaginal fluids for the sperm to swim up.  This would be a tough way to get pregnant for someone who was trying, let alone someone who was just randomly touching someone else.  

[AnnieBrooke]

It seems to me that if you had a big glob of semen on your fingers, you would not have shoved it into your vagina.

[Ash421]

I know I did not insert any that's just weird especially since me being me paranoid as hell I was as careful as possible just wanted make sure that if I got some on the outside one way or another how possible is it to fall pregnant just from that.

[AnnieBrooke]

... (If there even was sperm left on your fingers?)

[AnnieBrooke]

"On the outside" of what, like several inches down your leg which did not have secretions running down it?  On "the outside" of your vagina which was moist with your natural fluids?  Or on the outside of your underwear?  The point is, sperm needs a path up which to swim, and it can't be exposed to air.

You keep asking "how possible" it is.  How possible depends on those particular details.  If you touched your leg below the level of your underwear and it was not covered with fluid, where would the sperm go?  

[AnnieBrooke]

Screwy software.  The post I just made that starts "On the outside" was posted first, then the one that starts "...(If there" was second, but the software reversed the order and they don't make much sense in the wrong order.

[Ash421]

I meant mostly
If I had gotten a little on the Vulva in general how possible is it? And I know my vagina wasn't soaked wet down there as I was not that into it lol.

[AnnieBrooke]

This would not be the way to try to get pregnant if you were attempting to, much less that you weren't.  Your boyfriend who ejaculated had every opportunity.  It's not impossible, it is just something that has really tiny odds.

[AnnieBrooke]

And again, you don't even know if you touched yourself with sperm on your fingers.

[Ash421]

True I'm just extremely paranoid I want to get a prenatal paternity test :(

[AnnieBrooke]

If you do, use Ravgen or the DDC, there are too many charlatan labs on the Internet.

[AnnieBrooke]

It is theoretically possible, if he had ejaculated and the semen protected the sperm in it from the air long enough for your hand to reach your vagina, and you then inserted it far enough that the sperm was able to swim up your vaginal secretions.  But it's not very possible, especially since you don't know for sure this even happened.

Do you know for sure that this is the exact time frame you should be worrying about?  Did you have an early ultrasound (sixth or seventh week) that pinpointed the exact time when you had sex one day and oral the next?