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Help please ????

ok i had sex with this guy on july 7th but when i checked when i concived i was almost 2 weeks pregnant when i had sex with him  . is it possible its his or was i already pregnant by my ex . Im 7 weeks and 4 days today ? im scared and nervous.
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I had intercourse with my Ex on 20th feb and my hubby on 22nd feb.  My Lmp was on 8th feb .  I am now pregnant for 6 months and 11days.  can anyone please help me with whose kid it will be??  my ex or my hubby?
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Baybeemommaa, do you know how a doctor counts pregnancy?  If they tell you that you are a given number of weeks pregnant, they are NOT saying they think you conceived that number of weeks ago.  Pregnancy counts begin on the (assumed) first day of the last period.  Not at the (presumed) conception date.  What exactly were you told at the doctor's, and by what method, was it an ultrasound?  And when was that?
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Yeah that makes.more sense its probably your ex lol
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see my last period was june 14 and when i count i must of concived june 28 which will make me 2 weeks and the day i slept with the other guy , must, mean i was already 4 weeks pregnant and when i add the days til right now , im exactly 7 weeks and 4 days . & thats exactly what the doctor said today , so its my ex !?!?!
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yea , i was . I took my mirena out in march and was having unprotected sex all the time with my boyfirend. Then one night we argued , and i slept with a guy , i took a pregnancy test 3 weeks later amd it came out negative then 2 weeks later it came out positive . so i was five weeks.  and i just calculated the weeks and i think i was already almost pregnant lol idk its confusing amd im scared.
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Best way to know forsure would be dna test once baby is born..
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Are u irregular?
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My last menstrual period was june 8 I didnt concieve till june 25 which was already considered 2weeks got pregnant july 3rd im now 10wks its weird but its not always when u last had ur menstrual cycle
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Its your ex theu always add two weeks I think because they count from your last period so start counting dont freak out just when you go to your next appoinment ask them when was thw day you conceived and see from their
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Or they were wrong... maybe you missed a period just because
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thats what i say , but i went to a ultrasound and they said i was 7 weeks +3 . so im guessing in july i didnt a period   so its really hard to know.
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If your last period was June that would mean you are almost 10 weeks.
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see my last period was June 14 , and july i didnt get, a period .
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ughhhh ! the new guy said he didnt come in me . & i had sex with my ex all the time even after the new guy and before that . Even when i was on my period had sex with my ex . & it was only once with the new guy . but when i see supposly was im week two of pregnancy , and when i found out i was five weeks . Im so darn confused and dont know how to tell my ex.
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Seems from the date of july 7th it would be the other guys. You should be further along than 7 weeks 4 days if it was ur exs unless you had sex with both of them within days of one another.. you definitely will need a test. Good luck!
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9142665 tn?1406075655
Hummm this is confusing. . What exactly do you mean when you say when you checked when you conceived you were almost 2 weeks pregnant. . You wouldn't know when you were two weeks pregnant because you wouldn't be pregnant yet.. I mean technically they start counting the first day of your cycle (period ( but obviously you are not pregnant at that point.. so at "two weeks" pregnant you would be ovulating meaning the sperm and egg would just be meeting and then it would need to implant which takes on average 6-12 days then at that point your pregnant. So by the time your period is due you are considered 4 weeks because they count from day one of your cycle
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Go to a doctor. There's no way of telling who the father is until after birth dna test. Congrats on pregnancy though(:
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Might be your Ex's ? If you had sex with this one guy and you found out you were two weeks pregnant before having sex with this guy chances are the baby your expecting is your ex boyfriend good luck !
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