HELP PLEASE

[Briana0411]

My due date is on March 2, 2014 but my doctor said I could be due late February. I'm trying to find out when did I conceive. Its actually very important right now. Please comment or answer :/ Thank you.

[Briana0411]

Thank you

[AnnieBrooke]

Honey, it sounds like you conceived in the first or second week of June, not the first week of May.  Get an ultrasound and put the whole question to rest.  Don't wait until your next trimester, get one next week.

[Briana0411]

And yes, ALL was unprotected sex..

[Briana0411]

My boyfriend & I broke up in April, in the beginning May I had sex with another guy. A couple weeks after that, my boyfriend & I got back together with my boyfriend & we had sex. I had gotten my period on May 22, and it ended around May 27 I think. My boyfriend & I had sex a lot in June && I waited for my period && it never came. The beginning of July, I took 3 pregnancy tests && all 3 were POSITIVE. I went to the doc && he said I was due March 3, 2014. I didn't get no ultrasound yet. Could the guy I messed around with in the beginning of May still be the father? I'm really scared because I made a HUGE mistake and I'm with my boyfriend still. The doctor said I was 2 Months & 2 weeks now..

[AnnieBrooke]

Briana, you had sex with someone and then later on, you had a period?  And didn't have sex with him again?  (I hate to have guess, it would help if you were more forthcoming with information.)  You ask if it is still possible for him to be the father, but the only information you have given is that you had sex in the beginning of May with the one guy, and your doc has given you a due date that you have said is the end of February, March 2 and March 3.  I can help you figure this out even in the absence of an ultrasound, though an ultrasound would clarify things a lot if you could get it now.  But you need to give this info:

Sex with guy 1:  _____ (dates) < -- I assume it was unprotected?
Sex with guy 2:  _____ (dates) < -- were you having sex with guy 1 and 2 near the same times?
Exact first day of last period as best you can remember: ________
Doctor's range of suggested due dates:  February ? through March 3

Also given that the only thing we have to go on so far is the first day of your last period, are your periods regular?  How long is your cycle?

[Briana0411]

I need a new doc asap! One was in the beginning in May, it was a stupid mistake. I had gotten my period in late May around May 22. so is it still possible for him to be the father?

[AnnieBrooke]

They can't tell from your hormone levels when your due date is.  Perhaps your doctor gave you a due date based on the first day of your last period.  I can't imagine any doctor worth his salt giving you a due date as specific as naming a certain day, based on your hormone levels.  If he specifically said he did that, get a new doctor.

Even counting on a calendar based on the first day of your last period is much less precise than it would be if you were to get an ultrasound this week or next.  Can you make a request for an earlier ultrasound?  Even if you have to pay for it out of pocket, it will go a long way to answering your urgent question.  And if you wait until 20 weeks, it is not going to give you the answer, because although all babies start out as one cell and grow at a certain rate for the first few weeks, after that they grow at different rates and measuring them is not going to give you very much help with dating.

How close together were the dates of the sex that you are concerned about?  If, for example, the dates are a month apart and you had a period in between, that is pretty easy to figure out with the information you have on hand, but if it is a matter of a week or less, you really need to find a way to get an ultrasound now.

[Briana0411]

I'm not getting a ultra sound until 20 weeks, the doctor drew blood & gave me a uncomfortable pap smear :( . I never knew they could read the hormones in your blood to give me a due date. The due date that he gave me was possibly wrong? He said March 3, 2014. I've been trying to find out when I conceived.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, Briana, when was your very first ultrasound, i.e., how early in your pregnancy, and what did they give you for an estimated due date then?  Whether the doctor gives you a due date and then changes it later is not as significant as the first due date you were given, if you were given it by an ultrasound.  Have you had an ultrasound?

[Briana0411]

I'm just trynna find out when I conceived. Having trouble funding out though.

[Sep2013baby]

The only reason why it would be important is if u were messing around with more than one guy other than that ill listen to ur doctor when u have an ultra sound they give u a more accurate due date and if u ask ur doc hell tell u about the time u concieved