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My due date is march 25 had sex with my bf all the last weeks in June had a one night stand July2 that's it and boyfriend days after that is my boyfriend the father so scared and nervous he has serious anger problems what should I do and we stay together
COMMUNITY LEADER
I know it seems almost impossible, but you CAN break away. You'd probably get the best information and advice from the National Domestic Violence Hotline, at 1−800−799−SAFE(7233). Take care, sweetheart --
(((HUGS)))
Annie
(((HUGS)))
Annie
Ok didn't think about that thank u so much your a big help
COMMUNITY LEADER
Another possibility is not to leave your next doctor's appointment with him. Let them know what is happening and say you are going to try to break away from him there, and they will have security on hand.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Well, it all depends on how much you want out, then. I would walk out with the clothes on my back to get away from that kind of crazy man. So what if he knows how much money you have, can you get it from your bank account or is he on all your accounts? What do you two live on? Does he work? Does he walk to the mailbox and pick up the Social Security check? Or what? Certainly you must go to the store, even if it is with him you can walk out the back door or hide in the cooler or call a cab and get in it and drive to a woman's shelter or police station.
And thanks for your advice
No he goes everywhere with me don't have room to breathe family moved far and I called police before they don't respond unless some violence is occuring thank u your a big help but its hard he knws how much money I have where my friends live he checks my call records everything believe me I've tried a lot even for his moms help but she can barely help she's scared of him to
COMMUNITY LEADER
Sweetheart, you're trying "but he never leaves the house"? 'Trying' what, to leave? Do you mean he won't let you go to the store or anything? Does he go with you to your doctor appointments or to see your mom?
I'm sorry again, but with your first day of your lmp being June 18, the calculator does pinpoint your ovulation date as being July 2. Even so, the possibility of your boyfriend being the dad is high, because you had sex with him on all dates surrounding July 2 (most importantly, because you had sex with him in the days before it). But you can't know for sure.
If you are really saying that he is in essence keeping you a prisoner, get the police to help you leave. Call them and tell them what is happening and that you want to be able to walk out the door with your stuff, and you don't think right now that you safely can. Or call a woman's shelter for advice.
I'm sorry again, but with your first day of your lmp being June 18, the calculator does pinpoint your ovulation date as being July 2. Even so, the possibility of your boyfriend being the dad is high, because you had sex with him on all dates surrounding July 2 (most importantly, because you had sex with him in the days before it). But you can't know for sure.
If you are really saying that he is in essence keeping you a prisoner, get the police to help you leave. Call them and tell them what is happening and that you want to be able to walk out the door with your stuff, and you don't think right now that you safely can. Or call a woman's shelter for advice.
Also one in January around 28 weeks gave me same due date
I got it at 19 weeks
It was by ultrasound they had it at march 27 until I hot my ultrasound but yea I'm trying but he never leaves the house and if he is not the father he's gonna trip I just really hope he is can't deal with that my last period started June 18
COMMUNITY LEADER
Hi, riahria, if he has serious anger problems, in all earnestness, why are you in a relationship with him? Any woman, let alone one who is pregnant, deserves better than to be scared and nervous that the man who so-called "loves" her is going to blow up at her any moment. I hope you consider carefully; that is not love. If he loved you, he would try to fix his anger issues and not take things out on you. You're setting yourself up for having fights with him while you are holding the baby trying to get the baby to stop crying, and other awful scenarios. If you can't leave him on your behalf, please think about leaving him for the sake of the baby.
As to your question -- how did you get your due date, was it by ultrasound? And at what point in the pregnancy did you get it? If it was by ultrasound and was relatively early in the pregnancy, unfortunately you aren't going to be able to tell who the dad is until you have a DNA test, since the July 2 date is your most likely date of ovulation on the charts. If you had a late ultrasound, there is the possibility that the date is off by a few days -- when was the first day of your last period, do you know?
As to your question -- how did you get your due date, was it by ultrasound? And at what point in the pregnancy did you get it? If it was by ultrasound and was relatively early in the pregnancy, unfortunately you aren't going to be able to tell who the dad is until you have a DNA test, since the July 2 date is your most likely date of ovulation on the charts. If you had a late ultrasound, there is the possibility that the date is off by a few days -- when was the first day of your last period, do you know?
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