That's the best advice I've heard....what we think, we become, whether its depression, in pain, etc. We have the power of the mind and the body will follow your thoughts!!!!!
In cognitive therapy the patient works toward changing thought patterns. For example, I make a mistake at work and believe I'm incompetent. I keep feeding that thought and feel depressed. In cognative therapy I work with the therapist in changing the erroneous thought. The next time something similar happens, I stop the process and change the thinking before spiraling downward. In cognative therapy it doesn't matter why I have such low self-esteem, it's about directly changing the thought.
Congratulations on finding help through therapy. I find this method helpful too. A big part of my getting to feel better has been to acknowledge that I have a problem that cannot be fixed b me alone. Listening to others and then to oneself is definitly a learing experience.
This also helped me in accepting medication that I thought I didn't need.
What is cognitive therapy?