amxiety and vomiting

[Louisejane]

At the moment I am vomiting every time I start to eat if there are people at the table with me.  I am going through a particularly difficult time.  Am divorcing a narccisistic man who sleeps with 20 year old men from Thailand.  He is on the nternet talking to them and arranging meetings and staying with them in our apt in Thailand.  My son is post chemo-testicular cancer 1 year on. WE cannot sell our home and our 18 year old is not working.  I am kept as a hostage with no acces to money.  Husband buys the groceries, petrol and anything I want but I have no choices and I cannot even choose what I eat as he does that in his buying.

[Hensley258]

I agree with fuzzy882. You really need to get out of that situation at all costs.

If my spouse were doing what your husband is doing then I am sure I would be trowing up all the time too.

If your husband is sleeping with men, then I can think of no better reason to end the marrage. You also have to seriously consider the risk your taking. His behavior makes him a very a high risk for STD's that could easily be passed to you.

If your husband wants to sleep around with strange men fine, but he needs to do it as a single man, not as a husband.

I don't care if I has to swim my way back home from Thailand, I would do so in a minute. I suggest you do the same.

[fuzzy882]

Louise, the way you describe it, I guess I would be vomiting too.  High anxiety Will make you sick to your stomach and nausated.  I think the first thing you need to do is get the heck out of there, someway, anyway.