any advice

[skitz444]

bin deeplt down depressed am stuck in ny wife dont wanna get out ny. kids are 27 23 21 im gettin back to work now after long comp back injury have to switch jobs to less physically demanding  longislands a rat race to much pressure would give all rights to the house she still wont move..and wont due contested divorce any advice

[LeftCoastChick]

It's important that you do seek help, but pushing down your feelings will not help, so I have to disagree with the previous poster. That is the most unhealthy way to cope with your situation.  I would suggest you see your family doctor if you are suffering from depression if you haven't already. Getting into some talk therapy will help as well. I know for sure that if you open up and talk about what is going on, you will feel better!  Keep posting !
Keep in touch,
LCC

[drywallman]

try to pray to the holy almighty, or find meds for your head, or just leave your problems behind hide some place.

[LeftCoastChick]

No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage?  Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.