do you think my problem can be solved?
Hi,
You must have injured yourself. Do refrain from any sexual activity until this has been assessed by your primary physician. The cut must have been infected and this may cause the redness, swelling and pain.
An OTC pain medication may be able to help temporarily.Have your physician assess this and keep from unnecessarily touching or manipulating the area to avoid any infection. Avoid wearing tight underpants and always keep the area clean and dry.Wash it with mild bland soap .
Keep us posted regarding your physician's advice.