My yellow lab is a little over 8 years old. She is a pure bread. She seems to have aged very quickly. She started having siezures about 3 years ago. I took her to the vet and and she was evaluated and diagnosed with seizures of unknown origin.She was also diagnosed with hip displasia. We had the option of medicating her. However, as she was already having struggles with keeping active, we chose not to medicate her, as the doctor said that siezures are not painful. She also has several Mammary tumors that are wheeping. The vet stated that since she didn't get "fixed" when she was a puppy, this is common.( we were going to breed her) She is also diagnosed with hip displasia. Lately she has had trouble getting up and down. She moans and whimpers at times. She also has started to shake and stumble when outside relieving herself. I have spoken to the vet on occasion. We have an appointment again with the vet to determine if we should consider putting her down. I am struggling with this decision. My family has had many meetings to determine what would be best for her. We have tried antiinflamatory meds, Cusions for her sleep area, diet changes, etc. Narcotics would sedate her and she is already having trouble with energy issues. I know she is 8 and 1/2 years old, but she demonstrates like a 15 year old. I know she is arthritic and I am sure she had lyme disease. I need to know if our family is making the right decision.
I would be concerned about the tumors that are weeping and I'm glad you never bred her as dysplasia is hereditary.
How can you be sure she had Lyme disease? Was blood work done to confirm that? Are you in a tick infested area? Lyme disease can cause lameness and can cause neurological problems, in some cases.
Unfortunately, it does not sound like your dog is doing well. Putting a pet to sleep is a very personal decision. It might be best if you talked to your Vet and get a professional opinion. This might help you to make that decision. My *personal* feeling is that if the dog is suffering and you are only able to do things to support life, what is the quality of that life going to be for your pet? Are you just prolonging the inevitable and you are still going to have a dog laying there not being able to enjoy it's days and in pain? Is there a chance that medication, treatments may help and the dog would have a relatively good quality of life? I try not to judge people as these are personal decisions and only you and your family know your dog.
To give an example (and I have had many dogs over the years and have had to make these difficult decisions), I have a 12 1/2 year old Greyhound that was diagnosed with Lymphoma. Due to his age, the cost and side effects of treatment, I decided to do palliative care only knowing he may only be around a couple of more months. He has been fine, in no pain, eating, etc. However, the past week, I am seeing more enlarged lymph nodes and his appetite is becoming less and less. He is not in pain but I am pretty sure this disease will be taking him soon. Right or wrong, this was my decision not to try more due to his age and treatment probably would not have prolonged his life much longer (if at all). At least he has been able to continue with his daily routine and takes his daily walks. When he is too uncomfortable and is just not enjoying life or there are complications, I have made arrangements (hoping an emergent situation won't warrant an office or ER visit) to have my Vet come to our home and put him to rest.
Sometimes, this is the last act of *love* we can do for our pets.
good luck to you. You will know when it is time.