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Erectile problems for teen
Okay i am 17 years old. recently my girlfriend and i are were about to have sex for the first time, were both virgins. As we are kissing and stuff, i get hard. And as we are about to have sex, my penis goes back to normal. this happens throughout the time. like the hardness comes and goes. one minute i am really hard and the next i lose all hardness. this has just been recently happening too. before i am able to keep hardness the whole time when we are just fooling around. Also i have been drinking and doing ectasy in the week this has occured. i just want to know if its me or maybe im thinking too much? and if there are any serious problems with me?
and also i have been shaving the area above my penis and these red little pimples have been showing up. a few of them have whiteheads and the rest are just plain red. i wanna know what they are and if its serious. thank you.
and also i have been shaving the area above my penis and these red little pimples have been showing up. a few of them have whiteheads and the rest are just plain red. i wanna know what they are and if its serious. thank you.
Hi there,
Advice needed! I am a mum & have found in my 17 yr old sons drawer some Cialis & some doctors literature on ED! I obviously had no idea!
I am so pleased that he has seeked help for this but do I try to talk to him about this or do I not, as I don't want to embarrass him,but I am now worried about him!!
He has had a steady girlfriend for over a year!!
Advice needed! I am a mum & have found in my 17 yr old sons drawer some Cialis & some doctors literature on ED! I obviously had no idea!
I am so pleased that he has seeked help for this but do I try to talk to him about this or do I not, as I don't want to embarrass him,but I am now worried about him!!
He has had a steady girlfriend for over a year!!
I am 17 and am a virgin and my situation seems to be the most similar to beenthere3000. Last week i was on holiday and i met a girl in a bar, we got quite drunk and before i knew it i was back in her hotel room. I am quite self- conscientious about my penis size and sex is such a big deal for me. I have never had it before so i was both nervous and excited. I was hard right up until i put on the condom and then my erection just disappeared. Although she was very nice about it, i was mortified. I couldn't believe i had done that in front of a girl. I was angry at my self and confused to why that would happen. We ended up just kissing for a bit and then going home. I spent the next day angry at my self trying to understand why that would happen and if it would again, i told some close friends (boys) who said erectile disfunction happens to everyone and its normal to happen once.
I then saw her two nights later, she didn't mind at all, she put it behind her and acted like it had never happened. However i am a very anxious person, and i panic very easily. When i met her the second time after some drinks once again we headed back to her hotel room and all i could think about what not being able to get it up, we got into the room, kissed for a bit and she kept asking if i was ready and all this pressure and my anxiety meant whenever i went to put the condom on, my erection would disappear. I would get random erections and feel like i was ready then 'boom' it would disappear so quickly. We spent all night trying in between breaks of kissing or talking. It was embarrassing and in the end i stayed in the hotel room and all we did was kiss. The whole way through she was understanding and nice about it however i couldn't stop panicking and working myself into a state.
My fear now is that i develop an anxiety that will mean every time i try and have sex i will think about this, panic and not be able to get it up. From reading all the responses and help here the most popular advice seems to find some way to get comfortable with a girl and relax and this will help you back into it. 'beenthere3000' suggested getting a prostitute in a hotel room i don't think this is the best solution however i was wandering if anyone thought using Viagra next time i have sex would be something that would take the worry of my mind and help me get over my anxiety? If anyone has any other suggestions i would be very grateful to hear them.
I then saw her two nights later, she didn't mind at all, she put it behind her and acted like it had never happened. However i am a very anxious person, and i panic very easily. When i met her the second time after some drinks once again we headed back to her hotel room and all i could think about what not being able to get it up, we got into the room, kissed for a bit and she kept asking if i was ready and all this pressure and my anxiety meant whenever i went to put the condom on, my erection would disappear. I would get random erections and feel like i was ready then 'boom' it would disappear so quickly. We spent all night trying in between breaks of kissing or talking. It was embarrassing and in the end i stayed in the hotel room and all we did was kiss. The whole way through she was understanding and nice about it however i couldn't stop panicking and working myself into a state.
My fear now is that i develop an anxiety that will mean every time i try and have sex i will think about this, panic and not be able to get it up. From reading all the responses and help here the most popular advice seems to find some way to get comfortable with a girl and relax and this will help you back into it. 'beenthere3000' suggested getting a prostitute in a hotel room i don't think this is the best solution however i was wandering if anyone thought using Viagra next time i have sex would be something that would take the worry of my mind and help me get over my anxiety? If anyone has any other suggestions i would be very grateful to hear them.
hi im 15 and a virgin i am experiencing similar symptoms to wayneskips but it has more to do with masturbation and like wayneskip i frequently masterbate and up to about a week ago i have been able to get rock hard throbbers but now there still erect but much softer is there any serious problems i should be looking for and i appreicate the help thanks
«I know some will not agree with this method but dude i lived it and wish i took this route. then when your ready call back all the escorts you couldnt f##k and F##k them»
:) Not the wisest thing ever posted here, but you do have a point: once you get more relaxed and used to sex, things will improve.
:) Not the wisest thing ever posted here, but you do have a point: once you get more relaxed and used to sex, things will improve.
I had this problem as a teen (19) but it was not a physical problem it was a mental problem. i would get so worked up about sex that instead of being horny I would panic (and im a dude go figure i felt like such a ***** with my **** being all shriveled and receded cuz of the anxiousness). anyways after 4 months of trying almost DAILY i finally got relaxed one day and finally got laid and been screwing ever since. Not to mention how embarrassing it is to me that theres a girl out there that probably tells this story frequently to friends and boyfriends (4 months of this ******** guys maybe even 6 i cant remember to clearly but it did take me a while). anyways the girl fell in love with me but i dumped her after a year of tearing the ***** up because i wanted more women i was not gonna go down as a one girl type of guy (now im like at about 50 something women in like 8 years) not bragging but just to emphasize how ridiculous i would react when i first took the plunge). My advice if you are like i used to be (scared to perform, thinking what if she figures i dont know what im doing, highly anxious) rent a room and get an escort that doesn't know you, do this as many times as it takes till you get used to fu#####g, she wont care if u dont perform all she wants is the money and will soon forget you, just say you were doing cocaine earlier and thats why u cant get hard "give me like fifteen minutes and play with my d##k again" and just conversate meanwhile to relax. Pick different fine ones with a big *** and good **** to help out, keep thinking wow im doing it with a complete stranger doesn't matter what happens. AND WEAR PROTECTION AND USE KY JELLY with nonoxyl 9 AND YOU SHOULD BE FINE. I know some will not agree with this method but dude i lived it and wish i took this route. then when your ready call back all the escorts you couldnt f##k and F##k them.
«Are there any natural spices or anything recommended to increase circulation if that's the issue?
Please stop telling us teenagers to go see a doctor. WE'RE TEENAGERS.»
Two things:
a) Natural antioxidants (vitamin E, pycnogenol, pomegranate juice) improve blood circulation and can do wonders for your sex life.
b) Teenagers can/should go see a doctor, just like anyone else.
Please stop telling us teenagers to go see a doctor. WE'RE TEENAGERS.»
Two things:
a) Natural antioxidants (vitamin E, pycnogenol, pomegranate juice) improve blood circulation and can do wonders for your sex life.
b) Teenagers can/should go see a doctor, just like anyone else.
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