I have been aware of this 'heavy oily' odor that my husband has had most of the years I have known him.
In the earlier years, it did not offend me (as much!) as it does now.
Now, when I have approached the issue with him, (very very tactfully) he just doesn't seem to want to acknowledge it.
But now it is at a point where I find it unbearable; other people close to us, have commented that they too smell the same odor, yet he doesnt.
I have to take his cloths out of our closet (when he is not home) and wash them because this odor is embedded in all his cloths. I have asked him (ever so delicately) if he would take a shower before coming into bed, but I still smell it.
Is there anything I can buy for him to wash with, that would help eliminate this odor?
Could this be a 'medical condition' that he should follow up with a physician?
Any help or suggestion will greatly be appreciated. I am embarrassed to be in public with him when the odor is quite strong.