Hey when i had my HCG shot, we BD'd that night then 2 days later had IUI and BD'd again that night then i think 2 days after that!.
As far as the effect it has on ur marrage, i asked my DF for advise and well, he wasn't very helpful!! lol. He said the trouble is is always there in the back of the mind, he knew if we had sex then in 2 days we'd have to have it again and that's when he's start to feel the pressure, He said it contently felt like a chore!.
I'd to not say anything, not mention it, not sujest it. nothing. (i use to chart it on a calander!!) I tryed to put the fun back into things, send him text through the day with the odd comment, then set the seen at home, set the mood ....... then pounce!!! lol
We all know how difficult it is, so remember your not alone. Ooh if u can take him away for a relaxing weekend, just don't tell him it's around the time your Oing. That worked a treat for me!! lol. He thought it was to get away from all the baby making stuff and was time for just us. Because he was relaxed and i hadn't told him we 'had' to have sex, it worked!!! seeky i know!!
Good luck to you. Keep us posted x
AF showed this morning, I knew it would I mean it was an off month but of course in the back of my mind I hoped it would just happen. Anyhow..called the RE, start IUI cycle 5 Friday. My last IUI which was first on injections I did get pregnant so crossing fingers it will happen again this time on injections
yes I did. My husband said he hates when it timmed cause its like a job instead of us enjoying one another. The test will pick up the hcg and say positive if you used a injection. I keep explaining that I understand but unfortunately this is what we have to do in order to acheive our dreams. He tells me not to tell him just engage and get him started he does not have to know what its for :-)
Does anyone know how soon after you HCG shots you should be b/d (according to your doc or nurse), how often, and for how many days? Just wondering. Have been using an ovulation kit along with my meds (femera, follistim, and HCG) and the test said this morning that it still detected LH and FSH :) All this timed b/d though has caused a strain in my marriage because my husband has all this pressure on him. :( Just wanted to know if anyone else is experiencing that.
It's good to see your faith and be reminded of God's faithfulness to us. I know He knows our situation best and knows what's best for us. It's really hard sometimes though (like right now) but I know He has a plan. Thanks for the reminder :))
@katgrey225, why was your iui cancelled? if your endometrium is thin or thick, your gynecologist ought to recommend progyluton for u- the white capsules increase the endometrium while the brown ones make it thin. i dont think its a good idea to cancel the iui. i had all issues u mentioned and my gyno gave me proglyluton (white) and i was still on my glucophage cos of pcos which we just discovered have disappeared. Do u believe in God? then hold on to Him- nothing is impossible with Him. i am on day 15 wait-not in a hurry to check cos i know my God and am sure He has perfected all that concerns me.
stay blessed al.