Beta went down..WTH!

[butterflybabies]

Hi Everyone,
Today I found out that my 3rd beta levels went down..From 242 on Monday to 138 today...This is my 3rd pregnancy this year and 3rd loss..Have to go monday for another beta, was told to stop progestrone and will have a consult with the RE sometime soon to discuss options...
What options could I possibly have! I dont have an issue of getting preggo just staying preggo...Im gonna be 35 on Tuesday..I guess my eggs are to old..IDK..! What did I do to deserve all this heartache? I am not a bad person, my dh and I want a baby so badly..I feel horrible that I cannot give him one...He deserves to be a daddy! He has told me over and over that if it ends up just being me and him he is ok with that...I am not ok with that..nor do we have tons of money to try anything different..
What do I do...Do we just keep trying naturally? I mean one of these times it has to work right?? I am so upset right now I cant stop crying ....Happy F*cking Birthday to me!!

[mysty2001]

Butterfly - I want to tell you that the clinics that told me to use the aspirine I miscarried !   After that I spoke with a good RE and he said "aspirine not for everyone I don't usually suggest it"
NOW when I did use it I stopped about 3 days before transfer (I used around every other day for maybe 2 weeks to get lining fluffly and thats it!)
I had 3 successful pregnancies this way (five babies)
ALSO - I used adopted frozen embryos - that is a great way to go if you want to consider it!

[Heather5]

OH NO, Lily! I'm so, so sorry!!! You and your DH are in my thoughts...

[butterflybabies]

Ho hum just waiting to start my bleeding, So far I feel bloated, mild cramps and have very little spotting...the spotting that I am having is soooo dark brown looks almost black..I just wish it would start already,,,just want to get it over with..
Thanks again everyone for your kind words...
Lily

[help4baby]

I can't believe this...wht the h*** . I was so happy for u and thinking about u.
Why it is happening every time? I m very angry with ur RE what r they doing ? They have to find solution ..gurrrr

After failing my ivf doc put me on aspirin too I know it helped a lot and also my progesterone level was not good  It used to drop any time so they put me on progesterone in oil but  my body is not responding as good as it has to be. so they put me on progesterone suppositories and they were tracking my level so closely.  asked for all options  and we also forced them that we wanted to find problem before trying again I was not agree with unexplained infertility or whatever.

I m praying for ur success.
Good wishes

[Jenny5]

Don't feel bad and don't blame it on yourself. It is not our fault. If it will make you feel better the problem is not your age. I'm 29 and for the last 4 years i have had 3 m/c and 2 failed IVF and the 3d ivf was positive but the second beta was already decreassed so that one turned in a chemical pregnancy. My husband tells me the same that if we would have a baby great if not it will be just us 2. He keeps saying that is me that he wants first and healthy and then a baby. It is time for you to take some time off and after that you should do some testing starting with genetic testing. There is a reason for you to m/c and you should find the reason. My Re put me on heparin and baby aspirin and next time that i will get pregnant i will be on them both. Take care

[dainsey]

I'm sorry to hear what you're going thru.  I went thru the same thing.  I would get pregnant very easy but I kept miscarrying.  I had 3 in a row.  I had two D&Cs and we tested the fetus and they both came out chromosonally normal so we knew it was my body causing the miscarriages.  So my OB put me on heparin and baby aspirin and the next pregnancy stuck and I had my daughter :-)  I'm pregnant again with another little girl and due in 3 weeks and yes I was on the heparin and baby aspirin again.  Please ask your doctor about it.  My OB said that women with recurrent miscarriages can benefit from heparin.