I don't have any advice...just simpathy. At first I thought you were crazy for mentioning another baby so soon but I'm with ya. I think in another 9 months from now I would be ready. And like you, with my history of getting pregnant I have a lot of questions, what if it takes a long time? What if I m/c again. I want two kids and I want them kind of close together too. But what if it's too soon? What if something goes wrong with DH's surgery or we can't afford another baby? His job may let him go after all this time of being off. I wish I had the answer for both of us. The truth is no one can look into the future 9 months and know if we made the right decision or not but I do know one thing for sure. Whether we are ready or not the moment you look into that new babys eyes you will have NO REGRETS. Isn't that all that matters? As mothers we will figure out the rest as we go along.
Go for it!!!!!!!! And keep me updated!
XOXO
I'm 8weeks 4 days today and Obgyn appt on 9/9 this thursday. Thanks for updating us!!
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Dnikkki: Welcome Peyton Therese!!! Born 2/2/10 at 9:47 p.m. 6 pounds, 6 ounces & 19 inches long!
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trh0819: BFP! 14 weeks :)
Guesito: BFP!!! 2nd u/s 8/27! HB seen beating at 140bpm!!!
Michelleinhawaii: BFP - Send prayers & positive thoughts :)
Bfromthed: My heart is breaking for you ;( We're all thinking of you!
Luvkayln: You're always in our prayers! ((HUGS!)) Maybe starting to TTC?
krichar: CD14- waiting on test for FET in October
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Luvkalyn: I'm glad Addy is doing well!! DS took forever to get his first tooth - he was almost 1 before he got it! Peyton is starting to get the hangof keeping her tummy off the floor and trying to get her knees under her :) It won't be long! As far as you wanting to start trying - We had DS in December of '06. We were told we had to get p/g immediately b/c of my endo and pcos - We started trying when DS was 6months old. I ended up with a m/c in '08 (that's when I joined here) and then finally got p/g with Peyton in '09. There is really no answer to say it's going to take a while or it will happen immediately. I think what you and Sean should do is figure out if you guys start tyring now, if you will be ready for another baby in 9 months or so. But then factor in that it may not happen immediately also...It's a hard decision to make but no one can tell you that you've made the wrong one lol. All I can say is it's really nice to have 1 potty trained lol! And I've heard most girls start potty training around 18months and catch on very quick! Hope that helps a little!!
Guesito: Glad to hear the moring sickness is still in full swing lol!!! When is your next appt.?
Have a great day ladies! Hugs, Love and SSBD to all :-)
Good morning Ladies! :) Sorry I've been mia! Wanted to give a quick update! Addy's crawling all over the place, and pulling herself up! She has 2 teeth, and OMG she looks so adorable when she smiles! Haha!! :) She's getting so big! It's so fun to watch her learn and be able to do things, but it's starting to make me have baby fever again! I think it's all this baby talk around me lately... Sean's cousin had their baby girl 2 weeks before we had Addy, and they're 9 weeks pregnant again. We seem to keep getting pregnant around the same time, and it just makes me think that what if our last baby would've made it?! Granted, I didn't feel ready at the time and I miscarried. I feel like our pregnancy history hasn't been great, and what if we wait to start ttc'ing again until Addy's 2, and it takes us forever to get another baby here? I don't worry about it taking forever to get pregnant, I feel like it will happen quickly, but what if I keep miscarrying? I'm very driven, so I won't give up, but I do want my kids somewhat close in age! What do you guys think? Do you think it's too soon?
Sbumblebeeo- So dh does have to go through with the surgery? :( When is that taking place? It's definately NOT greedy or crazy that you want another baby! I say let's bring on the ttc!!! :)
Guesito- Glad to hear everything's great with you and your little one!! :)
Dnikki- Yay Peyton!! She popped her first tooth already?! Wow, Addy took forever! lol!
Shelby is 5 months and trying to crawl. DH is having major back surgery and I want another baby. Greedy? Crazy? Scared of the risk that the surgery brings?