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Count me out this month

Nurse called and said it was a BFN.  So...just waiting for AF to show and go from there.  
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My heart goes out to u texasangel. I wish u well and a beautiful BFP soon. Take care of urself !! I am so sorry!!

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thanks for the words of encouragement!  hope everyone has a great weekend!
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374593 tn?1257879950
so sorry to hear about the BFN.. I agree with them above, drink up that wine, ritas and coffee!   I hope that it will be the last time you drink for a long time, and you'll get the BFP next cycle!!!
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330481 tn?1309488243
oh man! I am so sorry!!! Hugs!
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318181 tn?1336443496
I'm so sorry about the BFNs :-(  Definitely enjoy the margaritas this weekend, texasangel! And SHP, I would go for the big tub of ice cream, and if you're home, maybe find a funny movie or something that can help keep your mind off the BFN.
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i knew it was coming...but still hearing those words were just devastating.  i should be used to it...it had been almost 2 years now.  i know i am young and that i have plenty of time, but it still doesn't make it any easier.  

we are having a party on saturday and i now know i can drink the margaritas from the margarita machine!  it will probably be my best friend.  

SHP - a large tub of icecream sounds GREAT!!!  we can eat and cry together  
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453798 tn?1262633421
I am sorry for your disappointment too.  I am going in for an IUI today and tomorrow, but feel like crying with the both of you.  What is wrong with me?  I think a couple glasses of wine and some xanax sound wonderful.  :)  I really don't know what to say to both of you other than:  Sorry!
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I just got my BFN.  This is my second try at IVF - and my last.  I am so crushed.  I am 40 and have low ovarian reserve.  I can't afford to keep trying - i mean we will eventually go to donor egg but we are trying to find the money.  I so wanted one of my own.  I realize that i will love any child that I raise but it is the death of a dream.  I know how you feel today.  I can't decide weather to eat an entire tub of chocolate ice cream or knock myself out with xanax.  i feel like I need to do something crazy.  - just what.  I have already cried myself into a headache.
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453798 tn?1262633421
Sorry!!!  We all know the feeling.
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294043 tn?1354207946
I am so sorry  :(
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