where is af?

[Kele2432]

I always get my period on day 28 in the am.  Today I haven't gotten it yet but I did get a BFN on a clearblue easy digital.  Frustrating.  If im not preggers than I want af to arrive already.  on 12dpo i took a cvs test that was negative but then had a blue line hours later.  Yesterday I took another cvs in it had a faint line in the time frame but then went away.  Probably both evap lines.  AHHH this is torture!

[Kele2432]

Thanks Natalie, I wish you luck and hope that af doesn't come this month!  Ill keep everyone posted on what the RE says Tuesday.

[natalie910]

I know exactly how you feel...each month is so frustrating and ttc does take over your thoughts. My DH has been there every step of the way but I know it really bothers him when I am so moody. AF is late for me right now too but I know I o'ed late. I guess I was too stressed. The funny thing is, I really felt less stressed last, who knows. You're taking a great step in finding out why it's taking so long and I wish you good luck!!

[Kele2432]

Wow, thats quite a story and it sounds pretty familiar.  No break up but I don't know how much longer my dh is going to put up with me.  I teach so Im off for the summer and it only gives me more time to obsess over this.  Im hoping that when I go back to work I can keep myself busy enough to stop thinking about it all the time.  Im was really tore about going to an RE but decided to go ahead and make an appt. for next Tuesday.  I had a hysteroscopy and laparoscopy done so I would like to get some of the blood work, and other tests taken care of to rule some more things out.  That way, maybe, I know what im up against.  For some weird reason, making that appt has already made me feel better.  At least for now.  Thanks so much for your reply.  I really do appreciate you taking the time to tell me your story.  It makes me feel a little better about the frustration that we and so many other women go through trying to conceive.  Congrats on your pregnancy!  I wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy!

[BabyBlue07]

I am sorry to hear another BFN.. I do understand what you are going through.. I been there and done that for 21 months... It's frustrated and depressed.. I got so angry all the time and to the point my attidute and personality changed and my husband decided not want to have baby anymore unless i have to change myself back the way I was...

so... we decided to break for 2 months (April and May 09) we will try again in 06/09.  When we are stop trying and do not think about it.. then I got pregnant end of april 09.. I am 15 weeks pregnant now and this pregnancy throw us by surprise... I am keep asking my doctor are you sure I am pregnant...This is a miracle pregnancy..

somehow our body working when we don't have stress and not to thinking about it...

eat healthy diet, exercise, reduce stress, stay away from drugs and alcohols, take good care of yourself and your spouse..

good luck to youl

[Kele2432]

Another BFN this morning.  I shouldn't even have tested.  I spotted last night.  Then nothing this morning, now spotting again.  Cramps are gone.  I think AF is getting a slow start.  I made my first appt. with an RE since we have been ttc for over a year and I have endometriosis.

[Kele2432]

Thanks, I think it is the stress!

[BabyBlue07]

stress could delay your period.. There are alot of reasons why your AF not showing up...

I been there and done that... it's stress me out everytime i have late AF and HPT-.  I do understand the frustration.. Hang in there..

Take care and just relax..