IVF #2

[michelleivf]

I HAD A BFN TODAY  AND I WAS JUST WANT TO NO IF ANY OF YOU HAD TO DO A #2 IVF AND WAS IT SUCCESSFUL I HAVE PCOS AND I HAVE DIABETES ARE SHOULD I JUST ADOPT

[michelleivf]

i am so sorry to hear about your miscarriages and good luck with ivf #4 i think i am going to try one more time i have pcos and when i did this one i get one good egg and that was all out of 10 and they were all 19 to 25 and i get one egg but my hubby want to try one more time so i am going to but we have been trying for 12y now and i keep geting BFN and that is hard i will keep u in my prayers i pray for everyone that is going thru what we are

[Kricket212]

Hang in there, It's very hard to go thru this.....
I have already done 3 IVF's & from that I had 2 miscarriages.  
I will be starting IVF #4 very soon & pray this works............if it doesn't I think we will just go to donor eggs.  
Adoption is great too but it can really take years, & years.  I have a friend adopting #2 from Korea & was told the wait is 3 1/2 yrs.

Good Luck

[michelleivf]

i am so so sorry about yesterday  i just dont no what to do right now my husband wants to try one more time so i will and i do to but like you said it is draining and depressing when you get that call and it not good but good luck to u when will u be doing ivf5 we may be doing it at the sametime and can be there for one another

[jakl726]

i'm sorry to hear about your bfn.  it is natural to feel the way your are feeling after this type of result.  similarly, it is natural to want to not have to go through several ivfs to have a successful pregnancy.  in other words, its okay to feel this way... just hang in there and don't give-up if this is what you and your husband wants.  i've had 4 ivfs and i just finished my egg retrieval yesterday with only 3 eggs and to find out this morning that none survived.. so i'm on to my 5th ivf.
don't give-up if this is what you what.  you are not alone.  it is frustrating, draining, and depressing to say the least.  
if you decide to continue, there are ivf protocols out there specifically for pcos.  you should read about it and compare if you are getting one or not and have that discussion with your doctor.
good luck and hang in there!