Problably Failed IVF cycle. So bummed

[Jenny5]

Girls i was yesterday at my Re for the first beta. I was 10 days post transfer. I got the call today and it was negative. My Re will repeat it on monday maybe it's early but i don't think so.Problably this cycle failed. I don't know what went wrong. We had 2 perfect blasto embryo transfered, the lining was thick, the hormones were good.What worries me is that i don't know what to do next. I got pregant 3 times and m/c all three with clomit, and i thought maybe is the egg quality since i don't ovulate on my own. So we went on IVF for the egg selection and embryo but that didn't work either. So i don't know what treatment i can do next. I don't have insurance and we took a loan for this cycle, and except that the whole time that i was on treatment my hair has fallen out a lot.If i do another round of IVF i'll be bold for sure. And we didn't have any embryos left. From 9 only 2 went to day 5. I feel so bad and depressed, not only for me but for DH too. My bad luck continues to follow me. And the worst thing is that i feel so bloated and my bbobs hurt a bit so i thought maybe is a sign since i had those with all my pregancys.I really don't want to know any more about this conceving thing. I have past the last 3 years on doctors and meds, blood and sono and appt. I cannot take it anymore.And in top of that all around me get preganant so easy. Why cannot God give all the persons the same things?Why there are women on the world who abandon their kids and here we are fighting and paying thousand of dollars and not getting anywhere. Life is not fair.

[JaniceP]

I just found out yesterday as well that my IVF cycle failed.  I had 3 good embryo's that were implanted..and  none took. It really is hard to believe.  I feel like it's all my fault, at my age, 40, the doctor says the percent of success is only 25-30%. not good. My husband has been a godsend..without him, not sure where I would be. Hang in there...the answers will come. We just need to find the strength.

[Nurseypie]

Bummer...I know you really were hoping for this. You expressed all of our frustrations perfectly and it is confusing to see so many ungrateful parents out there having children all over the place that they don't even take care of when women like us would die for the honor of being moms. Speaking as a women born with non functioning ovaries that dissolved as I became an adult I can only tell you that I have gone back and fourth many times regarding fertility. My route was to use donor eggs. That was the right choice for me. I know you will look at your situation and choose the right route for you. I have faith God will bless you and make you a mother. From what I see there seems to be a pattern. IVF success often comes in 2 tries. It took 2 tries for me to conceive as well as many testamonies on this board. I wish all the best for you and your DH.

[Helen72]

I am so very sorry you have to struggle so much.  Infertility and m/c are such painful problems.  Noone deserves to go through what you went through.  Infertility is never fair!!!  There are no words that can make you feel better right now but I sincerely hope that you will get that sticky embryo and a bfp soon.