Thanks ladies - from all the positive feedback I do realize there are just some people that are stupid...I will stick around :) I do all the positiveness I get from you group of ladies and can't wait until each and everyone of you get a blaring BFP!!! I love you girls :) HUGS to all!!!!!!!!!
Jen
scienceteacher.... (also posted this as a response in your journal)i dont know you, but i have read and recieved alot of insulting comments from certain individuals that have made me want to leave medhelp completely NOT just the particular forum. and i understand the inappropriate posts about abortion or early teen questions... there was one (on the fertility forum) a long while ago, telling ppl that she was pregnant AGAIN after having several abortions.... and i believe was asking advice on if she should have yet another abortion... omg WHY would anyone ask something like that from a group of women who have been struggling for years to have a baby... insensitive and inappropriate.
i dont think you should leave although i have no idea what the post said or what the poll was about... but you are right, you dont come on these forums to be bashed... you come for support and encouragement in whatever area you are needing help with. i have also learned not to share some personal information aka "my lifes story" in most forums as you know someone is going to have a harsh opinion and judge someone for past wrongs or whatever.
anyhow i hope you dont leave the forums and can get through this complication in the harmony of MH forums...lol
Jen,
do not leave ..PLEASE!
Hey there,
I don't know you but I justwanted to say that I have read your posts and you are very helpfuk to a lot of women on here and I have learned a few things through reading. Who cares what those other people think, it's your true friends who really matter. I would just remember that old saying "Can't help stupid". That's what some people are. Hope you change your mind!
Is this about the clomid poll?? I participated but did not see any nasty comments at that time (I think I was the third or the 4th person to vote). What happened?? Can't imagine why would anyone attack you...
Hey there. I don't know you well, but you did help me out a while back when I had a question & I really appreciated your advice & your humor :) Whenever I see your posts, it puts a smile on my face. I think we need more people like you on here & I hope you decide to stick around.
Oh no, don't leave, Jen! I didn't see the poll, but I really hope you'll stick around. It wouldn't be the same on here without you!
Yeah - responded to your post saying I understood :)
I said I didn't think you should take them without being monitored, but I hope you didn't think I was judging you. I meant it with the best of intensions.
This is a good community, and I would really hate to see you give it up.
Jen please don't go. I don't think there was anything wrong with your pull. You are better than those people. Please don't leave we need you and want to be there for you also.
i saw the poll, and it was fine. i didn't see but i am guessing some people got judgmental about what you were doing, and it got ugly. which was unnecessary. (and as to the question you were originally asking about, oh maybe it's not suggested, but i have done it myself so i don't blame you for asking!)
i am just guessing. people do that sometimes on here, it's happened to me, and it made me want to leave. but, it will blow over and you will know to ignore those people. don't let that make you leave!
OMG! What happened? You need to stay here with us.
Jen, don't go! What happened? I don't want you to go. Please stay!
Jen what happened? I was on vacation and then catching up at work this week and haven't been on in a while. Can something be resolved? Are you ok?
Hugs,
Tina