I've been through this many times and on try number 8 I finally got lucky with my beautiful little girl. She's about to turn 3 and despite my age (41) and my husband's (61) and various other concerns, I desperately want to give my little girl a brother or sister. So we decided to do this just one more time and we're throwing everything we can at this try (such as... meds I was on with that last try that gave me my little girl. Including aspirin, clexane, prednisolone).
My biggest concern is that all those earlier tries, seeing as I didn't have a little one, I was able to take it very easy in the days after transfer and barely lifted a finger, let alone a 15kg child!! I'm worried and it's making me wonder just how important it is to have bed rest (and for how long) / not carry heavy weights / take it easy... etc...
I know that different doctors have different opinions. I've been told everything from a week of solid bed rest to simply taking it easy for a couple of days. But I'd like to hear others' thoughts.
Guess I'm just starting to get weird on myself as transfer is tomorrow!!! Guess I'll be bringing out the charm and setting up shrines to every deity under the sun next!
Many many thanks