wow well at least its not just maybe i need to get some pre-seed soon then!! yeah i get the dates all messed up too especially since i dont get the EWCM at all. do u get any of that?
gokuangel
yes I have the same issue! That is why I am always like, "Am I O-ing already?"
I have way more CM after AF then I do when I SHOULD have CM. Then it is just a little and it makes me wonder if I am O-ing at all!
im thinking this pre-seed maybe the thing i need too! i get really wet after AF but by the time O comes im all dried up (srry tmi) does any1 else have this problem and is it normal or could something be not right?
Thankyou so much for the information. I also get very dry during the time of my O, so I am hoping this works. I read that saliva affects sperm also. I did not realize that.
I agree with one of the cons being "messy". The 1st time we used it, I used the whole tube(which is what they recommend). It was a slippery, wet, mess! It was way too much for us. I used it again and only 1/2 tube. MUCH better. They say don't reuse the other 1/2. I used a syringe to draw the pre-seed out and then inserted it. Then used the remainder the next day. It was just fine.
That's the only issue I had with it. Other than that I really like and recommend it.
I tried it too. I get really dry at O time maybe because of clomid. I use it mainly to help ease the pain at dry times and help spermies swim faster. This is my second month and hoping to get good results like the other girls here. good luck to you :O)
It makes "on demand" bd much more comfortable for me. I'm a nights and weekends person, but if I am due to ovulate on a Thursday night I have to force myself to bd even though I *really* don't feel like it because I'm exhausted. Used to tear DH and I up bad and then we couldn't for 1-2 days which is really bad, so we'd try for the sake of TTC and wind up miserable. With pre-seed I can bd every one of my fertile days - and even enjoy it! Not to mention the benefit of more motile sperm, though I haven't conceived yet (as far as I know - 8DPO and anxiously waiting!). There are 2 things I don't like about it. It's its runnier than other kinds of lubricant and it drips all over the bed - yuck. I've taken to putting something down under us to avoid the mess. It also comes in these tubes that you have to squeeze a bulb to push it in close to the cervix. Maybe I was spoiled by KY long lasting but I like the plunger applicator better (more like a tampon). I find trying to aim and squeeze and then hold it flat so it doesn't suck the pre seed right back out is a huge pain. Maybe easier if DH helps. All things considered it's way worth it.