When is AF due? I also had cramps a week before AF and it turned out I was pregnant. Man, I loved being pregnant! Knowing that there was a tiny being, my baby, right there inside my body was just the coolest thing. I can't wait for it to happen again. (minus the previous end result, of course.)
You guys are so right! Crying is really good for you. I typically don't hold anything in, but this ttc stuff has been really challenging me! Don't be sad, Latrice, my good friend had AF like cramps for a week before her BFP. She thought for sure AF was coming. Maybe the same thing is happening to you! How many dpo are you?
Big Hugs Back!!!!
I'm so sorry you're feeling so sad. I hope the tears give you a sufficient release and that you feel a lot better after.
If you need me, I'm here for you.
More Big Hugs,
~Sue
((((((((((((hugzzz)))))))))))))) sue.
Crying cleanes the soul, it is healthy. Im sorry you didnt get a BFP, i was hoping we all got BFP's. At this moment as im typing i am very sad, i just ate some bologna with crackers and a piece of red velvet cake. I have been eating like crazy, i think i am getting depressed, once i log off, im gona go cleanse my soul by crying;(. I still have a few days , but i can feel AF coming.
I have absolutely no issues with crying. I just let it all out and feel better after. I live by the belief that you should be how you need to be. If you need to cry, then cry. If you need to be angry, then be angry. If you hold stuff in it will just come back to bite you in the butt.
RATS! I'm sorry Sue, I know how much this time really meant to you, Next month could very well be YOUR month! Good luck babe!
Its okay to cry! I have to tell myself that its okay to be upset and cry about it. Very few people know we're trying but my best friends always help pick me up afterwards. I always try to be so tough...hmmm....doesn't work. Well, the good news is, you get to do alot more BDing. =) Thank YOU for the support as well!
Hugs Back,
J.
I try very hard to remain positive. Yesterday I cried so hard, my face was completely flooded with tears. Today when I got a neg I was disappointed but it didn't carry the same weight as yesterday. I know it's not technically over yet, but I really don't think I'm pregnant. So, on to next month, another round of Clomid and a lot more BDing this time.
Thanks to all for your wonderful support!
Big Hugs,
~Sue
I agree-I love your positive attitude! I'm sorry about the neg. though. I really want you to be blessed with a BFP!!!!! You're right, it aint over til its over! HUGS!!!!
Great positive attitude, Sue!! The prayers are still heading your direction!
Big {{HUGS}}
Negative again today. I know it's not over til it's over but I'm sure I'm not pg this month. On to next month!
~Sue
Man, I hope you're right! I love hearing about late BFPs. It keeps me hopeful!
Hugs,
~Sue
Too early hun!!!! I'm sorry you had to see that ugly bfn. I'm glad you're being optimistic because you still have many more days to test!!!! My friend who is 7 mos (grr) had bfns until 19dpo!
I'm still holding onto hope too! HUGS!!!!
PS. When I was pg last Jan/Feb I sweatted (or is it sweat?) like a pig-in Michigan winter. I was always drenched!
maybe I'll have some luck tomorrow. Today really could be only 11dpo. Last year I got a clear neg on 11dpo and a clear pos on 12dpo. I was telling my DH they the recent stress at work could have done me in this month. The whole winter at work is pretty relaxed so if not this month maybe the next couple will be it. I'm still sad but remaining positive and optimistic.
I was JUST looking for your update when I found this thread. I am so sorry you got a BFN. 11DPO can still be too early though so don't give up hope just yet. BIG HUGS! Still holding out LOTS of hope for you this cycle!!!! :)
Thanks. I cried really hard this morning. Today may only be 11dpo so I will try again tomorrow. I've been sweating really badly the last several day when I've been sitting for a while. The sweat will just start pouring off me. I was hoping this might be "a good sign" but probably not.
~Sue
Awww...I am so sorry! I am really pulling for you! You have always been such a wonderful support on this site!!
I'll keep saying my prayers for you!
{{HUGS}}
Sorry, BFN. Maybe tomorrow...