I'm a 28 year old, bisexual male, concerned about an encounter I had with a Cuban man I met at a nightclub traveling abroad 5 days ago.
I didn't know his status, so I tried to limit the encounter to safer sex. However, the specific circumstances have given me a lot of anxiety.
Here is what we did:
- Lots of French kissing, including tongue play
- Mutual masturbation/frottage while naked without condom (handjobs, penis-to-penis rubbing, and he rubbed his penis against my anus)
- Several attempts by him to stick his fingers in my anus; don't think he got in
- He performed oral on me (not more than 1 minute, probably less b/c I pushed him off as I didn't want him to do that)
- Ending with mutual masturbation/penis rubbing with both of us ejaculating on/near each other's genital areas
Here are my specific concerns:
- It was dark, so I couldn't see if he had any sores or cuts on his hands or genitals
- After the encounter, I noticed that I had a 5 mm long cut on the top of my foreskin, like a paper cut (I'm not circumsized, and neither was he). This must have occured at some time during the encounter.
- I also had several small scrapes and cuts on my lower back, which I believe were caused by my back being up against an exposed stone/brick wall during parts of the encounter. His penis/pre-cum may have made contact with this area during anal frottage, after the scrapes and cuts probably occurred.
- I applied antiseptic to all of these cuts and scrapes an hour or so after the encounter, and they burned, suggesting relatively fresh cuts. The scrapes/cuts on my back were more substantial than the penis cut (they scabbed over and are still a little sore today), but they didn't seem particularly deep & I never say them actively bleeding.
Based on the activities above, plus the possibility that his pre-cum or semen made contact with these cuts/scrapes, what is my HIV risk? Should I test for this specific exposure? Test for any other STDs?