Massage three times

[Iron2121]

Hello doctor

Hi Doctor,

I had 3 visits to massage places and got masturbated the three times in teh end of the massage. I did not kiss, or have sex with any of them...just a hand job in the end with no fluids from the other person....

On the second time the girl held my penis too hard and I found a purple stain on it two days later, which is lowly going away....

Just wanna make sure this is ok and I am in no danger for stds....as I know this is safe practice and hope I am ok...since I like massages...

I hate to stress about this and wanna feel ok...

Thank you

[Edward W Hook, MD]

No!!!

There was no risk.

And there will be no further answers.  EWH

[Iron2121]

Ok thank you doctor Edward. Was I at risk for anything at all? If I do the HIV duo test at 30 days will that give final results?

I think I'm losing my mind.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

You are over reaction.  I repeat, receipt of masturbation did not put you at risk for any STI.  The dermatologist said the same thing.  What you saw was not an STI and was probably normal.  EWH

[Iron2121]

Hi doctor Edward sorry to writing here again.

This is not  ann anxiety driven question.

Two nights ago I was examining my penis as it was itching from now and then annd saw a very small red dot on the body of my penis, right where you hold it. It did not look like hpv or herpes just one very small dot. I then squesed it thinking it was a pimple....but there was no white liquid inside and instead a very small white skin I think....

Anyway it got inflamated and with a crust and after two days it is now healed up. I went to the doctor dermatologist and he said it was nothing.

Now I'm worried I caught something from the massages....

Can you help me out? I don't know what to do....

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Please don't play parnoid word games looking for hidden meanings.  You are not at risk. EWH

[Iron2121]

Why generally? is this a safe activity or no? no fluids were involved.....

[Edward W Hook, MD]

As massage to the penis is referred to as masturbation and is generally agreed to as a no risk event in any circumstance.  three or three hundred, still no risk. Even if another persons genital secretions or saliva get on you during the activity- still no risk.  EWH

[Iron2121]

Hello Doctor,

Sorry to post again and good morning.

I was a bit worried still, as you said you were confident both three sites would tell me the same outcome, as a massage could be a risk for some and others no....?

Isn't a massage to the penis or to the body the same thing as long as there is no fluids?

And as a final question, can I keep having massages with hand jobs in the end and be completely safe? Of course with no fluids from the other person...

Regards.

[Iron2121]

Ok thank you for everything I will then let this go...sorry for posting in all three places, I was anxious....

Best regards

[Edward W Hook, MD]

This is not herpes or HPV.  I would not worry about any STI.  I suggest you just let it heal., EWH

[Iron2121]

Hello doctor Edward and thank you for your answer.

Should the bruise be a symptom of herpes or hpv? Can I just let go on this as a simple bruise?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to the Forum.  I see that you have asked the same question on the HIV community site, on the International HIV Expert site and on this Forum.  I am confident that you will be the same answer at all three sites.  There is no risk for HIV, or for other STIs from receipt of masturbation.  This is true even if your partner holds your penis hard enough to bruise it and even if that person has sores on their hands. Still no risk at all and no need for concern or for testing.

I hope this comment will be helpful to you. EWH