First, you had totally safe sex that could not have resulted in HIV even if he were infected. Nobody in the world ever acquired HIV through hand contact with semen or by mutual masurbation.
Second, most people with HIV do not lie if asked directly. Third, I do not trust any non-professional judgment that someone has ARV-related lipodystrophy. Even experienced health care providers have problems with the diagnosis, which generally requires seeing the patient more than once. Changes in fat distribution over time are more telling than a single examination.
In summary, no risk. If your sex life continues as it is, you won't ever need an HIV test.
Just a bit worried, thinking that if he was HIV positive and i did do all the mentioned things with me. Since i did it on 2 separate occassions, i am just a bit paranoid.
You don't get to repeatedly ask the same question or repeatedly look for reassurance in new threads and I deleted your new attempt. Don't keep trying. Sounds like you need professional counseling. I won't have any furhter replies here either.
Got re-tested today and results are negative for HIV, Hep B and C. Thanks for your help