I have nothing to add to Dr. Hook's opinions and advice. The sort of exposure you describe has never been reported (or to my knowledge, even suspected) to have transmitted HIV. All the "what if" details make no difference: if the risk is so low there are no known cases, then obviously you have nothing to worry about. Further, you even quote CDC (for the second time) with part of the explanation why there was no risk.
I'm unaware of any data associating conjunctivitis with HIV. Conjunctivitis is an exceedingly common minor infection (or sometimes an allergic reaction), and the vast majority do not reflect HIV or any other serious underlying health problem. And your unexplained abdominal pain is also not a condition that suggests HIV.
But what blows my mind here is that you apparently haven't been tested for HIV. Dr. Hook advised it, not because he believed there was any risk, but because he thought the negative test result would help reassure you. And of course simple common sense tells you this is the way to sort out your fears about it.
Feel free to return with a follow-up comment when you have had an HIV test and report the result. Until then I will have no further comments or advice. There is no other information you could provide that would change my opinion or advice, and I refuse to fuel your speculations when a definitive answer is so readily available. So please do not post any other follow-up comments other than your test result.
So per your last paragraph, i am returning to tell you that i had an HIV test and it was negative as all of your predicted.
thanks for the help.
You're welcome. I'm glad to have helped.