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oral sex, hiv

hi everyone. i am 27 years old male. on 15th Feb i have oral sex with a girl. it was just about 30 seconds i guess. then i finished it. i did not see any blood on my penis or in her month. and i have cleaned it for three to four times. but after that, i was so nervous and scared. i asked some anti aids volunteers and they said that it is not that easy to be infected in this way. they still did not hear any of the report in this way. but i just dont know. i am so scared and i dont want my life to be ruined like that. i am so regretful to my girlfriend who is going to be engaged with me.

anyone here pls tell me the possibility of being infected through oral sex? should i do that test later? now i cant eat, i cant sleep well and i think i am mad already.
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Hi Dear,

After 23 days i am still scared about it. I caught a cold during the flight to another country and i felt weak and wanted to sleep. That makes me really really scared. I cant focus on my job. And every time when i see my girl friend, i really wanted to cried as i did this bad thing.

Could you pls seriously tell me if i really have to test for oral sex? The girl who sucked cant be reached and i dont know her situation, though she said she is free of all the diseases. Pls i am waiting for your reply.
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The truth is you need to accept that you had no risk for HIV and put this issue behind you and move on with your life.

If you had unprotected vaginal or anal sex with someone who's status you didn't know than you would have a reason to be concerned and worry about being tested.

You have nothing to worry about.





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it last less than a minute and my penis was ok. not any blood or wound there. but i am not sure if her mouth was good or not.

these days every time when i think of it, i had lots of dreams and i dont know what they were. and i felt so guilty to my girlfriend and still dont know how to face her.

pls tell me the truth. should i need to worried about this incident? would that be possible that i get infected?
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Oral sex is not a risk for HIV. Blood or no blood, still not a risk. You didn't have a risk and don't require testing. There have been large studies done showing oral sex does not transmit HIV.

Your anxiety and stress is likely causing all of your symptoms.

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on 18th, suddenly i felt dizzy and started to vomit. and i had a little diarrhea, twice or max three times a day. and i went to the doctor. he told me what i ate was not good. after having taken the pills he offered, i felt good. today still a little diarrhea. not that heavy, just a little.

is that the symptoms for the infection? i was so regretful and guilty and nervous and scared. i dont know what to do.
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hi dear. Is it? This oral sex is unprotected. that is what i am worried about. i dont know if she carries hiv or her mouth has any blood. still i am so nervous. she told me 100 times that she is clean. but i dont know if i should trust her or not. should i need to do some tests for it? those volunteers told me not to do it as there is no need.
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I wouldn't test just for this incident.
1508374 tn?1380808510
Hello,
Oral sex is not considered as a risk of HIV transmission.
HIV can be transmitted via unprotected vaginal or/and anal penetration, sharing IV works in drugs and from mother to child
Take care
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