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do i have reason to worry

I have read alot of the responses on line here, but i feel as though i need clarification for my situation.
I had oral sex with a female (her on me).  1 1/2 monts later I had cold.  2 1/2 months later, I had headache, i have an occasional cough (that use to produce fleem), my gums look like they are turning white in places, and I have a bad case of dry skin on my back and shoulders, my eyes feel tired and get red if i look at something for more than a minute, and I have blurriness in both eyes when this happens.  My weight has been going in between 3 to 5 pounds difference a day (always gaining back by night).  The girl that performed the oral on me is no longer answering her phone nor has she been at her house for the last week for me to talk to her.   Now to add to these problems, I am married and my wife complains of feeling dizzy/nausea (did pregnancy test and she was not pregnant), she had a rash break out on her face (same color as her skin with no bumps) and went away.  She missed her menstraul in Oct.  She claimed to be tired on a few occasions when it was early in the day.  

My questions are:
1. Do my symptoms fit into the ARS/HIVcategory
2. Do women miss mensrauls when they initially become infected
3. Does ARS cause dizziness
4. what was my risk/chances with all of these symptoms of having HIV?
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My results came in today and they were negative.  Thanks for all the support.  
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219662 tn?1223858560
If you do test positive, then you got it from your wife.
Receiving a BJ is virtually zero risk
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Sent my HomeAccess in yesterday.  I should have the results by tomorrow.  I'll post them after receiving them.  I am soo nervous and scared.
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I hope you are right....I know i should have considered the consequences prior to doing it, but it was in the heat of the moment...

Ohh, just to let everyone know, do not get taken like i did for a HIV home kit.  I bought one off line for 16 dollars and it never showed up, so I had to buy another one for 57 dollars which is on it's way now.  So do not go for the cheap ones.  As you look online, there are so many sites with different symptoms for HIV, it just makes you go crazy.  
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255761 tn?1204166672
No Risk . You have nothing to worry about ....Symptoms dont mean a thing .
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