wet frottage without any protection

[gummywummy]

Hi. I asked a question yesterday on this forum about oral risk and frottage.
Thanks for the quick answers they were all great help to me :)
But I think I've been a bit vague about the term 'frottage' so I'm posting again, and sorry about my repeated questions.
I just felt I needed to describe my case more specifically about the frottage part.

To depict the situation, my ex-boyfriend and I decided to have sex at first.
But as he tried to insert his penis into me, it didn't go in easily, because it was the first time for me trying to have sex.
Even both of us were very wet, it still couldn't go in easily and he just kept pushing his penis into my clitoris a few times.
Few minutes later, as I was also scared that my hymen would broke, we decided to stop and just went mimicking sex after that.
Although we changed our mind to not have sex and have decided to just mimick having sex, it wasn't all that different from trying to insert his penis into my clitoris, because he kept grinding his penis directly in a piston rythm and his erect head was in full contact with part of my clitoris, inner lips.

I'm not sure if this kind of case could be called 'frottage'. (I'm from Asian country that doesn't usually use English terms.) because even though my hymen didn't broke and he didn't penetrate me completely, I think there might have been 'a slight dipping' when he was trying to insert his penis. I think so, cos that stage caused his and my genitals very close adhesion. maybe about 2cm of his penis head has been dipped in my clitoris but I just might hot have told the difference from not penetrating any.

I'm sure he didn't ejacuate but he had precum covered on his penis head.

What do you tell the chance is in my situation?
I'm posting cuz I don't know if I should classify this one as frottage or not.
What do you think?

Thanks in advance.

[gummywummy]

Thank you, mrs. Lizzie. I understand. and if I can't accept my status even for this time, I would consider of being mentally cared. Actually I became more confused reading Dr.HHH's post yesterday, which'd been written on August 12, 2010, mentioning the 85% accuracy of oraquick. But by searching the internet I couldn't find any other surveys that says the reliability is that low. I guess I should just trust it. Thanks ;-)

[LIZZIE LOU]

dont even understand the purpose of this post if you have been tested.

do you need retesting?  NO

do i think you need mental care?  only if you cant accept your status and it is interfering with daily life.

you dont have hiv !

[gummywummy]

Thanks for your kind comment. Can I ask one more? Actually I already got tested and came out to be negative on the Oraquick Advance recently. And it was roughly after 2 years from all that happening.(The story I wrote above has happened about 2 years ago) But back then, after I broke up with him, I have had ARS symptoms including serious fever, liver enzymes elevating over 200, seriously swelling face and so on. Doctors couldn't find why. And it got well after 3 weeks. But these days, again I caught pneumonia a month ago, and red pimples keeps coming up and vanishes from my body. In 2 months after pneumonia, sore throat has developed and isn't going away for a month now. I know I've gotta believe the negative test result, but its summer now. I've never been infected sore throat this long in summer before ;( When I try to forget about HIV, my symptoms won't let me do that. Do you think I need re-testing? I bet you don't. Then do you think I need mental care?.. I don't know what is going on :( What do you think? Thanks again and in advance for your comment I appreciate it very much.

[LIZZIE LOU]

"Even both of us were very wet, it still couldn't go in easily and he just kept pushing his penis into my clitoris a few times."

well no wonder it wouldnt "go in" ! !

we were not there and cant tell you whether or not you were penetrated.  if you are unsure...then you can test to know your status.