Thanks for the kind words.
Thank you very much. I would like to say that this forum is a great place, not only to become more knowledgeable about HIV prevention but also a place to calm my fears. With your knowledge about HIV, I feel much better that you have assessed my situation and I am confident that I can trust your opinion. Thank you.
HIV related lymphadenopathy appears early in HIV infections (in the first few weeks) then goes away. So in addition to the things I said above, the timing is aganist HIV as the cause.
Your negative test result makes HIV impossible, even if the symptoms were typical -- which they are not. Trust me, you don't have HIV.
Thank you that helped a lot. Just so I'm on the right page, when people have enlarged lymph nodes from HIV, this happens in the first few weeks of infection, right? Basically, what I am trying to ask is, do lymph nodes appear in the beginning of the infection and stay like that in the body forever, or every now and then do lymph nodes pop up out of no where? thats what Im mostly concerned about. I hope you can clear that up for me.
As far as HIV is concerned, you can relax. There isn't anything in this that even hints at HIV. And a negative HIV test 4 months after the last possible exposure is proof positive you were not infected. That test result proves your current symptoms cannot be due to HIV, even if they were typical for HIV -- which they are not.
To your specific questions:
1) The lymphadenopathy (lymph node inflammation) due to HIV occurs in many areas of the body at once, not localized to one area like the neck. Even in people with such widespread lymphadenopathy, that symptom never occurs alone, only with fever and other symptoms. And even then, things other than HIV are much more common causes.
2) Size of nodes has nothing to do with it.
3) Indeed, it sound possible that an infection related to ear piercing is a possibility.
You should see a health care provider about these symptoms. If you have a localized bacterial infection, which seems likely, there is a small but definite risk of serious complications. You might need an antibiotic. But don't worry about HIV.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD