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Am I FREE?
so im the guy who was really worried about HIV from a handjob,
ive tested negative up to 2 months and 8 days,
am i free?
do i ever need to test again?
was it even a risk?
can you get HIV from making out without blood involved?
ive tested negative up to 2 months and 8 days,
am i free?
do i ever need to test again?
was it even a risk?
can you get HIV from making out without blood involved?
idk, the mind will do crazy things to you when your away from home, what if she tried putting blood down my urethra, some people like to spread HIV
a handjob?
honestly????????????
dude....unless her hand was magical and could turn into a vagina..i think you should RELAX..
anxiety is so freak consuming..i know..but really...i want to know how you could possibly even think it was logical to get hiv from a handjob..
honestly????????????
dude....unless her hand was magical and could turn into a vagina..i think you should RELAX..
anxiety is so freak consuming..i know..but really...i want to know how you could possibly even think it was logical to get hiv from a handjob..
u all r so right, hj and 3 months negative, im crazy if i think i have HIV, it must be anxiety
its just hard because im from southern california and im studying in medical school in india and there are alot of people with hiv/aids here.........
i hope i'l be ok for the next 5 years here
thanks for all ur help everyone.......
thanks lizzie
its just hard because im from southern california and im studying in medical school in india and there are alot of people with hiv/aids here.........
i hope i'l be ok for the next 5 years here
thanks for all ur help everyone.......
thanks lizzie
Your last post if solid proof that you are just anxiety filled. You acknowledge that it was a no risk situation but you still think infection is possible even with negative tests, which by the way you didnt even need in the first place. if you cant get over this then you should go seek counseling to get over the phobia. You cant go on living like that where every little sore throat or ache is a sign of HIV because it isnt so. Good luck to you.
oh dear...pleeeeez read your post above and tell me again that you are not having trouble accepting your results. so "if" i guarantee you that your symptoms are not related to hiv...you will be able to move on?
ok...i guarantee you. say bye bye :)
ok...i guarantee you. say bye bye :)
thanks a mil lizzie, but its not that im having trouble accepting my results, i know that a hj has no chance of transmitting HIV, but ive been worried about it so much that i just wanna make shure so i can move on with my life, like my mouth has a burning cut feeling in it and my throat hurts on and off it could just be something i ate, i just want to be assured that it has nothing to do with hiv, and like i said , it would free me from my worries, its just the gurantee that my mind wants to hear......
why would you feel the need to test at 6 months? 3 months is conclusive for an exposure...which i might add that you did NOT have.
if you are having trouble accepting your result...seek the help of a mental health professional.
if you are having trouble accepting your result...seek the help of a mental health professional.
i dont think its tonsilitis, it could have something to do wit something i ate because i dont feel it now.....
but as far as hiv, am i officially free from it do i need 6 month testing?
it was only a hj
but as far as hiv, am i officially free from it do i need 6 month testing?
it was only a hj
at this point even i think i am suffereing from anxiety,
i just got tested again and now its been 3 months from the hj and im negative
but today my throat felt like something was poking on the inside of it, and there was white stuff on the back of my throat..........
Is everyone shure that no matter what symptoms i have that i dont need to be tested again?
Finally am i 100% free?
no matter what symptoms i have in the next few important months of my life it cant be hiv right?
i just got tested again and now its been 3 months from the hj and im negative
but today my throat felt like something was poking on the inside of it, and there was white stuff on the back of my throat..........
Is everyone shure that no matter what symptoms i have that i dont need to be tested again?
Finally am i 100% free?
no matter what symptoms i have in the next few important months of my life it cant be hiv right?
A hadjob carries no risk and neither does making out with a girl. Plus every time somneone gets sick does mean they have HIV anyway, get over it already, you were never at risk. Plus you have a negative test.
your 2 months test is good to go...why? because you were NEVER at risk.
under normal circumstances...with a real risk...i would say that a 2 month, 8 day negative test would be something to celebrate. it is not likely to change.
under normal circumstances...with a real risk...i would say that a 2 month, 8 day negative test would be something to celebrate. it is not likely to change.
what about my 2 months and 8 days negative is that a good sign?
what about making out, is that a risk? (i was biting her lip lightly but there was no blood)
and ur shure a hj where she touches my urethra is not a risk?
what about making out, is that a risk? (i was biting her lip lightly but there was no blood)
and ur shure a hj where she touches my urethra is not a risk?
there is absolutely NO WAY that you can get infected with hiv from a handjob. it just cant happen.
move on.......................
move on.......................
idk but its better safe than sorry, i wasnt worried until i heard this girl got sik
and then im wondering about my possible exposures, and then about me and her makeing out which idk if its even a risk, im just trying to be on the safe side, please help me
and then im wondering about my possible exposures, and then about me and her makeing out which idk if its even a risk, im just trying to be on the safe side, please help me
can you explain to me exactly "how" one would get infected from a handjob? i'd like to hear you rationalize this.
please help.........
even though my only risk was a hj, and i tested negative up to 2months and 8 days
i just found out that a girl i made out with 3 weeks ago got sik and its killing me, i feel like i could have gave her HIV from making out with her and it makes me want to go get tested again cuz now its been 2 days short of 3 months since the hj to make shure i dont have HIV
what should i do?
people say hj is not a risk, what about making out?
r u guys shure im fine?
i really dont know, im losin it, i feel worse than myself having hiv, i feel like i put someone else at risk
even though my only risk was a hj, and i tested negative up to 2months and 8 days
i just found out that a girl i made out with 3 weeks ago got sik and its killing me, i feel like i could have gave her HIV from making out with her and it makes me want to go get tested again cuz now its been 2 days short of 3 months since the hj to make shure i dont have HIV
what should i do?
people say hj is not a risk, what about making out?
r u guys shure im fine?
i really dont know, im losin it, i feel worse than myself having hiv, i feel like i put someone else at risk
try to? you have been as safe as you can be you would probably be more at risk if you had protected sex and thats pretty darn safe lol your fine
you have been free and you have been wasting your time on the internet stressing worrying and testing you were never even close to at risk unless your **** flew out of her hand and landed in her vagina i would give anything to trade places with you because then i would have never had a real risk or worry get over it move on with your life you do not have hiv you didnt even have an exposure
Bamn, I give you my word - you have no risk from hand jobs. None at all.
Your constant fear is common. HIV anxiety is a very difficult issue to overcome. You do NOT need to worry. Your two month test is as good as gold. You don't have HIV.
If you cannot get over this and constantly worry, I urge you to seek professional help to deal with this. It is unhealthy to worry so much, you did not have a risk period. Your family doctor will be able to guide you to the correct course of action to overcome your anxiety.
I wish you the best, but from my experience, it sometimes is not enough to just reassure someone. I am telling you, I have absolutely no doubt in my mind - not even a TINY bit of doubt - about your HIV status. You do not have it.
Your constant fear is common. HIV anxiety is a very difficult issue to overcome. You do NOT need to worry. Your two month test is as good as gold. You don't have HIV.
If you cannot get over this and constantly worry, I urge you to seek professional help to deal with this. It is unhealthy to worry so much, you did not have a risk period. Your family doctor will be able to guide you to the correct course of action to overcome your anxiety.
I wish you the best, but from my experience, it sometimes is not enough to just reassure someone. I am telling you, I have absolutely no doubt in my mind - not even a TINY bit of doubt - about your HIV status. You do not have it.
so i never have to think about it at all?
and never get tested again for the hj?
and never get tested again for the hj?
Yes you are free, you never even had a risk. Seriously how do you even think you could get infected from a handjob?
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