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Am I at risk

I recently got a massage done in singapore which ended in the masseur giving me a handjob. I did not finger her at all. After about 3 days I had non penetrative sex with my wife ie French kiss &  Mutual masturbation. She was menstruating when we did this. After about a week from then she developed some urinary problem with frequent urination & vomiting. She was put on antibiotics & she was allright but after 4 days she again developed those symptoms & was again put on antibiotics. She seems allright now ( she is still on medication) with occasional problems of gad... but Iam really worried if I have been infected & If I have infected her. I got a DNA PCR test done 15 days post expoure which came back negative but Iam freaking out. Pls let me know if Iam at risk.  
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So I don't have to go for another test?
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You cannot get infected with HIV from a massage and a handjob, or from French kissing and mutual masturbation

You can only be infected with HIV by:
vaginal or anal intercourse without a condom,
or from sharing iv drug works,
or from a mother to a baby.

There is no way you infected your wife with HIV.
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