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HIV Risk Multiple time Paid sex

Hi,
I am 33 years Male from India. During last 2 years, I had sex with many prostitutes in India.(Around 8 times with diff. Girls). I always used Condoms.
On one occasion i had protected vaginal  sex than i masturbated but while after removing the condom aleaned my penis. Now i have fear of HIV n STDs as i had vaginal fluid on my hand n i cleaned with same hand.
On another occasion i got Blow job with condom.
I had deep kiss with two prostitutes, i also have chapped lips.
P.S. During my college days, When i didnt have any sex experience. Once i had some blisters on my penis and that iching was horrible than i went to see a doctor. Doctor gave me some medicine and i was fine after that. I still have no idea was that chlamydia, genital warts, genital herpes, and gonorrhea or Syphillis.
Now I have fear of HIV and other STDs.
I have fear that I might give the same disease to my wife. I have done the following tests
A) VDRL (RPR), serum
B) HIV 1 & 2 ANTIBODIES, Screeing test
C) Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) 1+2 , lgG, Serum
D) Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) 1+2 , lgM, Serum
E) TPHA , Treponema Pallidum Hemagglutination
F) Chlamydia Trachomatis lgG

Test result is pending. What are the other test, should i conduct. I am v depressed and fear like hell. Plz help, What are m chances of HIV n STDs
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I mean I got Blow job without Condom
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You had no HIV risk and testing was a waste of time.   Can't get HIV when you use a condom.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV.  No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from the situation you are concerned about so it is unlikely that it will happen in the next 40 of your lifetime either.
Thanks for your comments... apart from hiv other STDs
Check the std forum for std.
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