I met the HIV positive people,Pls help me!

[miniok]

dear H.H.H
I am a gay from China,bad English.I hope you can understand what I say.
Yesterday, I recept a gay massage, including:
1) massage, the masseur's hand has not scratch
2) mutual mastubation
3) most important, during the massage,i felt  his pennis(not erect) touched my bottom(beacuse i lay on the bed,face down),but i think it not touched my anus because it only touched slightly,maybe touch the skin around anus .His pennis has not secretions.
4) not oral and anus sex
5) he kissed my nipple for 5 senconds.

   today,I gave him  fast HIV  test twice, both positive.
  How can i do? Am i in dangrous? what is the risk of HIV?Do i need test? I am very fear.pls help me.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to our Forum.  I can understand that intimate contact with a partner who is HIV infected might be worrisome.  Nonetheless, the exposure you describe is no risk for acquisition of HIV.  Even with an infected partner, there has never been a case of HIV transmission from mutual masturbation, his kissing of your nipple or the incidental contact of his penis without penetration.  No risk, no need for testing related to this exposure.  (for HIV transmission to occur, there must be penetration.  You had no penetration, therefore no risk).

Hope this is helpful to you.  EWH

[Edward W Hook, MD]

This will be the last answer.  There is no risk for other STDs either.  Further questions will result in deletion of the entire thread.  EWH

[miniok]

  sorry,doctor,last question,

what's your opinion on my  acquisition of syphilis and other STDs.

thanks. i promise it's last question.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

The scratch that you mention is irrelevant.  You are not at risk from this exposure.  I have nothing else to say.  EWH

[miniok]

Doctor ,after massage,I found some scratch on my arm,but i believe it don't touch the masseur's secretions,only his hand-massage.

I am wating for your reply.
Can I come back to the past?My life has been in a terrible mess.

[miniok]

Doctor
I am wating for your reply.
Can I come back to the past?My life has been in a terrible mess.

[miniok]

thanks a lot.Your understanding made me deeply moved.This time, i met a positive partern, i am so worried.

I also find some scratch on my arm,but i believe it don't touch the masseur's secretions,only his hand-massage.

does it change your assessment?

[miniok]

I also find some scratch on my arm,but i believe it don't touch the masseur's secretions,only his hand-massage.

[miniok]

thanks duki.

The fact that make me crazy is the masseur's HIV status.I asked him before massage,he said he was OK,but I give him fast HIV Test twice,both pasitive!

I DO WORRY about very much.

[duki]

no chance you get hiv that way. do not worry

[miniok]

Can anyone answer my question? I had paid the $20 for this answer......

[miniok]

I am so anxious that i had lose my sleep.Please help me.