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Scared, need help and answers quick

Hello.  I am an 18 year old male.  I am getting very scared that i have the HIV virus.  The last time i had unproteced sex with someone i didn't know was about a year ago.  I had unprotected vaginal sex but it only lasted for about 4-5 minutes with no ejaculation.  3 months before that (a year and 3 months ago) i had unprotected vaginal sex with another girl but again that lasted only about 4-5 minutes and again no ejaculation.  I have had a girlfriend now for 7 months and we have unprocteced anal, vaginal and oral sex on a regular basis.  She assures me she doesn't have HIV because she has only had sex with 1 other person which was protected and they were both virgins.

What scares me is i am starting to get symptoms (or which I think are symptoms).  I have had neck problems/ a stiff neck for about a year now that doesn't go away even with chiro visits.  I had 3 back to back infections starting about 3 months ago (epidydimitis, a thumb infection, and now i have a cyst on my armpit.)  Right now i feel really sick.  I am constipated, nauseas, light headed and dizzy, very fatigued, achy joints, i have muscle ticks in my neck/arms every once in a while.  I took the Home Access HIV test and I am waiting for the results.  I just wanted some answers from a doctor while i await those.  Please help me.  Are my symptoms that of HIV?  What is the chance that I am HIV positive?  Thank you.
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Thanks a lot guys.  Hopefully the HIV home access test (which i should get the results for tomorrow) will come up negative and this is all just anxiety! Thanks again.
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277836 tn?1359666174
yes google anxiety and stress
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Thank you.  I believe i suffer from anxiety pretty badly and I believe this could be causing my symptoms or i could be psychologically developing symptoms.  Is that a possibility?
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277836 tn?1359666174
when it comes to hiv symptoms ARE not a valid indicator for hiv
otherwords you can have all symptoms they say and it still dosent mean you have hiv
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What do you mean by that? Thanks.
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277836 tn?1359666174
symptoms dont mean much at all when it comes to have test 3 months post exposure
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So have you ever heard of a stiff neck/neck pain as a symptom to HIV? That is my biggest problem and my girlfriend is starting to get it as well.  Also aren't night sweats a symptom of HIV?  And wouldn't my 3 back to back infections be due to weakend immune system which is caused by HIV?  Thank you so much for your quick response!
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I also forgot to add that I have no appetite what so ever and i also on and off for the past 5 or so months have been expiriencing night sweats.
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