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Hi,I am a 26 yrs old man. A month ago,I had a protected vagina sex(French kiss as well) with a massage parlour girl in China,2 weeks after the first encounter,I had protected vagina sex(French kiss as well) with the same girl again.

After the second encounter,I was started to freak out about the HIV infection.so within 5 days,I asked the lady for 15 times is she clean(I know is rude to ask her so many time,but I wanna reassure myself).she said she is clean and she got angry and tell me stop calling her unless is business in the future.since then,I anxious I will be HIV contracted.

I have no symptoms why so ever.

I very sure myself is clean prior to this encounter,I tested before back in feb 2009 for work place requirement.

What should I do now?did I put myself at risk?please help!
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Thank you!
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186166 tn?1385259382
HIV IS TRANSMITTED THROUGH...
UNPROTECTED VAGINAL/ANAL INTERCOURSE
SHARING IV DRUG WORKS
MOTHER TO CHILD

DID YOU HAVE ONE OF THE ABOVE EXPOSURES??????

KINDLY MOVE ON....
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Seek professional mental help for your phobias.
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Hi Lizzie, I hope this is my last post here.

This last two days, i have some pimple like red dot scattered(the form is not concerntrated) around on my forearm, chest and back. Is not itchy. Is that a HIV symptom?

What is the chances for me to get infected if both of us not HIV+ in this two episodes? Is that possible? We all know about the HIV exist, but very vaguely (as in not knowledgable enough) and put most of us in fear or even ignore the existant of this virus in some country culture. What can we do to stay away from this virus? I asked this question because i had started to worry about SEX. It make me feel SEX is not a right thing to do, is deadly once you touch it. I even made up my mind not to touch sex again including masturbation.

What is the right thing for me to do now? Should i go to get tested and go for counselling?
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186166 tn?1385259382
saliva is not infectious
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How about the French kiss????ulcer,tongue or saliva contact???
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186166 tn?1385259382
status makes no difference as long as the sex was protected.
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Thank you for the quick response!

I understand protected sex equal to no risk.how about you not sure about the partner HIV condition?

THANK YOU in advance for your answer.I really need somebody give me sex education 101 again to make me calm down.
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186166 tn?1385259382
protected sex = no risk.  testing is not needed.
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