Welcome to the forum. But if you had read and heeded the advice in the Disclaimer message, you could easily have found the answers you seek. Essentially identical questions are asked an average of 2-3 times every day; simple scanning of the forum would have made it clear that:
* Sexually active women in industrialized, including escorts, rarely have HIV -- probably an average of 1 chance in 1,000.
* When a woman has HIV, the transmission risk by unprotected vaginal sex is about once for every 2,000 exposures.
* Oral sex is safe -- some experts believe HIV is never transmitted from an infected oral partner by oral sex.
* Condoms work; you cannot get HIV through sex with a condom that does not break.
* Symptoms never help determine whether or not someone has HIV, since even when symptoms are typical for HIV, usually other, more common things are the cause.
As for your specific situation, it is not possible to catch HIV or HSV-1 by condom-protected oral sex. Your HSV-1 pre-dates the sexual exposure; probably you have an oral infection since childhood. You describe no symptoms that even hint at HIV or herpes infection, neither of which causes the kind of rash you describe, loose stools, or mucus in the throat, and almost always causes fever, which you do not have. You did not need any HIV testing at all. It is impossible you caught HIV or HSV-1 from the eposure described.
Regards-- HHH, MD
The oral sex i received was protected