Welcome to the forum. I'll try to help. As it is apparent that you have seen the Forum and are familiar with many of the statistics we quote with such remarkable regularity, I will go straight to your questions.
1. Uncircumcised men are about twice as likely to acquired HIV, all other things being equal, as men who have been circumcised. This fact has been proven by several studies of adult circumcision which was shown to reduce risk for HIV acquisition after the circumcision wound had healed.
2. The combination of a negative HIV ELISA and negative HIV PCR provide very strong evidence that you did not get HIV from this encounter. A repeat ELISA at 8 weeks (no need to wait for 3-6 months) will provide final, definitive evidence that you are not infected from the encounter you describe.
Persons with a history of genital herpes are about 30% more likely to acquire HIV than person who do not have GH, all other things being equal.
3. No need for testing beyond 8 weeks and, to be honest, given your test results, I think this is really just "icing on the cake". I am confident that any follow up tests related to the exposure you describe will be negative.
Hope this helps. You are almost certainly in the clear now. Please do not let your experience a month ago keep you from using condoms in the future. EWH
Your calculations are correct. Without considering the PCR results, your negative ELISA at 29 days reduces your risk to less than 1 in 22,000 and while the true sensitivity of the PCR is unknown (the manufacturers of the test do not claim it is for HIV diagnosis, the lab does; the PCR is not a test commercially licensed for this purpose and which has not been evaluated in large studies of the sort that give us the figures we use for considering performance of antibody detection tests). Those concerns aside, I would consider your combination of test results conclusive.
I have nothing to say about the "bumps" or your groin pain. Seeing your doctor is a good idea. I doubt that they are related to the exposure which started this exchange. EWH
Thank you, Doctor for your reply and advice.
Sorry for the follow up question but I was hoping you could help me statistically assess my risk at this point (I understand it is not a alternative for testing).
I have calculated the following:
Risk of HIV infection with someone who has HIV from one unexposed vaginal sex occurrence is 1 in a 1,000. Given the fact that I am uncircumcised this would be increase to 1 in 500. I also have genital herpes so this would increase the risk by 30% or 1 in 333. On the high end of your guess of the number of U.S. escorts that have HIV is 5%-15% so let’s say 15% so:
0.003 x 0.15 = 0.00045 or 1 in 2200. Are my calculations correct? Also given the fact that I had a negative HIV DNA by PCR and negative ELISA test at 29 days how does this factor in to lower my odds of having HIV? Is a a negative HIV DNA by PCR and negative ELISA test at 29 days not conclusive? If so why not? The manufacturers of the test say it is?
Lastly, I have also had two small bumps, white/skin color at the top of my foreskin on the outside of the foreskin as well as some mild but consistent pain in my left groin only. I am under extreme stress is this most likely the cause? I plan to see my doctor about these things.
Thank you for your help,