Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your question.
I'm a little surprised the local physician considered this a sufficiently high risk exposure to recommend PEP. In general, HIV is a lot less common than it once was in Thai sex workers, owing to a very successful national educational campaign. Perhaps s/he reasoned the risk is higher because your CSW partner apparently is not a consistent condom user; or perhaps there is available information about a particularly high rate of HIV in sex workers locally. To your specific questions:
1) If a woman has HIV, one calculation (by CDC, the US national public health agency) suggests an average risk of one transmission for every 2,000 episodes of unprotected vaginal sex. If we guess a 10% chance your partner had HIV, that would put your risk at 1 in 20,000. Probably actually lower than that, given the brevity (20 seconds) of unprotected exposure. I doubt the shower, water exposure, etc make any difference one way or the other.
2) The effectiveness of PEP following vaginal sex can only be estimated; it's a nearly impossible topic for systematic research. Most experts believe it's around 90% effective.
3) When PEP does not work, it theoretically can delay the time to a positive blood test. Most experts recommend testing at 6 months to be confident that infection didn't occur. (This is one of the downsides of PEP. Without it, definitive testing can be done much earlier -- so one of the effects of PEP can be to prolong the anxious period until final testing.)
I hope these comments are helpful. Best wishes-- HHH, MD
Hi Doc
Thanks for your comments.
It was I who mentioned the PEP in the conversation and wanted to know about it.
He did mention the risk of exposure through pre-cum and that it was likely less of a risk than if I had continued with full unprotected sex.
He mentioned the risk of exposure was around 1/1000 and PEP reduces it by about 90%.
I just wonder whether my anxiety prompted him to suggest PEP.
As we parted he told me to relax as my risk is almost zero.
I've only taken one dosage of the PEP. Should I continue?
I wondered whether the PEP idea started with you and not the doctor. It sounds like he and I are in general agreement about the risk level; the difference between his and my transmission estimates (1 in 1,000 versus 2,000) is trivial.
No distant online forum can give specific medical advice and I will not make any suggestion as to whether or not you continue with PEP. This is something for you to discuss with the doctor who prescribed it. But if you're inclined to stop PEP, I would advise you not to do so until your doctor recommends it. The worst thing would be to take the drug intermittently.