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Butt Crack Frottage with Cut

Hi I went to a massage center in the Philippines and I got a masseur. He undressed me including my underwear. When it's time to massage my back, he went on top of me. I was feeling his bulge on my butt but I'm not sure if he still has his underwear and pants on. I could feel it and I'm not sure if he's naked down below. After 2 days I realized I had a small red cut an 1 inch above the anus which could have been exposed or touched his penis given that he's not wearing anything. I'm not sure also if I had that cut already when I was having the massage.

After 2 days also, I went to the same masseur to ask him about what happened, and he told me he had his pants on. But I'm not really sure if he's telling the truth. He also said he's HIV negative and that he's been having his test monthly. He told me that on March 2013, he was diagnosed with pneumonia and he was scared but he tested negative again last April. I'm not pretty sure if he's really telling me the truth. I was tensing my butt muscle by the way, so my anus would not be reached. But I'm still scared.

I am too anxious. I have a bf and I told it to him since I couldn't take it longer, hiding it from him. My question:

Is there a risk with what happened?

Also, if taken into account that he really went naked below (for a while) and doing frottage on my buttcrack and with precum, and with my cut on it, is there a risk?
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186166 tn?1385259382
this forum is hiv specific and you do NOT have a hiv concern
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Help also? Thank you
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I'm really worried cause maybe he's rubbing his genital on me. :( I'm sorry for asking too much questions. So there's really no risk even if he's rubbing it? And also, is Hep B also a concern? Thank you
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Thank you.
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186166 tn?1385259382
NO RISK
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Yes, but is there a chance that maybe a precum drops on that cut? and therefore be a risk? I can assure no penetration.
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186166 tn?1385259382
transmission REQUIRES penetration...it happens INSIDE the body, when a penis is INSIDE a vagina / anus
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