Dear Doctors,
First of all, thanks for the amazing job you are both doing on this forum.
During a business trip in Australia, I visited a legal brothel in Sydney and had oral and vaginal sex with a (Chinese?) CSW. I didn't ask her for her HIV / STD status but the owner later told me that the girls were clean and had a regular check-up done. I think I remember she put me a condom (including for oral) but I was somewhat drunk and now am second-guessing myself (although I know that CSWs in legal brothels there wouldn't generally do anything unprotected). I'm HSV-2 positive.
As you must well know, HIV is rare in CSWs in Australia and Sydney in particular. I understand from various reports / studies done by B. Donovan and others, that there's never been a documented / reported case of HIV from / to a CSW since the beginning of the epidemic. In addition, based on annual surveillance reports published by the University of NSW, HIV prevalence is similar and even lower for CSWs than the general population at less than 0.1% (among the 3225 CSW tested last year by the SHCs across Australia, none was positive).
My questions, which I must acknowledge are not unique at all, are the following:
-Assuming it was unprotected (I know that oral sex is close to no risk), that the risk she was infected is 1/1000 (does that sound reasonable?) and the risk of transmission is 1/500 for vaginal (based on my on HSV-2 status), my risk was 1 in 500,000 or close to zero for that exposure. Do you agree with that calculation?
-I think you are going to tell me that I do not need testing except for peace of mind / re-assurance. Do you confirm?
Many thanks for your time and support.