Doctors,
I had an exposure in december. It was protected vaginal sex with a sexworker and unprotected oral sex. I don't know if she was an IV drug user or not, but she seemed all about safety. This event panicked me (I am married) so I waited until the 83rd day after this exposure and was tested for HIV, syphyllis, and hep a, b, and c. All came back negative. It was a standard lab blood draw, and I don't think it was the duo test for HIV.
Since my test, twice I visited massage parlors and received masturbation with oil. no other contact. My wife has been dying to have sex so we can start a family, but I can't seem to bring myself to believe I just might be OK. I start thinking about whether or not I received a false negative, or maybe I did not wait a long enough time to test, or I may start developing antibodies at a later stage. Then I start thinking maybe I could have cought something from 1 of the 2 handjobs I received since my test. I never tested for ghonnorea, chlamidia, or herpes, but have had no drippage, sores, or anything. The only thing I notices was a small pimple on the shaft of my penis which I popped and it went away.
Can you please summarize your opinions on what my next steps should be? I desperatly want to move on from this and have unprotected sex with my wife, and really don't ever want to play with fire ever again. But do you think I walked away from this experience without getting burned?
Please help, I'm really concerned with everything.