This will be a little long but PLEASE bear with me. I'm FREAKING OUT!!!!
January 19th I had unprotected oral and vaginal sex with a girl I had just met. During the vaginal she started to bleed. When we finished I immediately urinated and showered. Her history unkown. I'm a horrible person as I have a wife and 1yr old.
The next morning I noticed a red line below my bottom lip that went away the next day.
Jan 21 had relations with the wife.
Had some urethral awareness/itching so I tested and was negative for Chlamydia 1/30
Feb 13th I had diarrhea, no vomiting, no fever. Lasted 2 days. Could have been from BBQ I had in OKC (person I was with ate the same thing but didn't get sick) (think it was the bug the whole family had, mom in law, wife, sis in law)
Feb 20ish Had relations with the wife, woke the next morning with urethral itch and "dishcharge" didnt milk or urinate after sex the night before. Wrote it off as left over semen but got tested for Gonorrhea anyaway. Not detected.
March 18th ish I had a recurrent perineal abscess that got big and ruptured on its own on 3/22. Had inquinal lymph node tenderness, low back pain and slight fever. 99.2 Went to doc who prescribed Bactrim DS.
March 23rd Played sand volleyball for several hours.
March 25th Went to Vegas. Running a slight fever the enitre time ranged between normal and 99.7 ish.
March 28th Flew back to texas non-stop. Midway through the flight started getting chills fever spiked at 101.6
March 29th back pain and fever between 99.5 and 101
March 30th woke up with fever still no night sweats. Got out of shower and noticed rash on back of arms and tender neck lymph nodes with the inguinal tenderness still.
Fearing a Bactrim (sulfa) reaction/allergy I went back to the doc. He said the rash didnt look quite like a reactive rash but told me to stop the Bactrim. I had to fly later that night. By this time my anxiety was through the roof. I hadn't eaten in more than 24 hours. At the airport I noticed my tongue was white. Immediately thought thrush and brushed the hell outta my tongue. I ate a lil bit as due to stress my appetite was nil. Still running slight fever.
March 31st woke up with no fever and felt much better aside from stressing over the rash and back pain. My tongue was white again. Had one shot of watery poo from what I believe to be the fact that I had nothing but water and a granola bar in 24 hrs.
April 1st Woke up with no fever, just STRESS and anxiety. Tongue wasnt white until later in the day.
April 2nd Woke with no fever, still stressing, Tongue wasnt white. Went and got blood drawn for a HSV and HIV test.
Today. Woke no fever. I'm still stressing but not quite as bad. I know that ARS, if its gonna happen is usually within the first 2-4 weeks of infection. Wife has had no ARS symptoms. She has hypothyriodism and is taking Synthroid for it. She's immunocompromised as it is so if she were infected, she would have had symptoms by now.