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Hey Teak
iv been reading alot of posts and am starting to feel a little better.  But you know how it goes. Sat i was out with friends.  One of my friends friends had an interst in me. We started chatting and b4 i knew it we wer in his car smokn some pot. Well. It turned into oral sex.  I was buzzed from drinks ans now high. Not realizing my friends wer calling me on my cell over 40x's. I blew him for about 4 mns. He did not cum. He blew me on and off maybe 2 mns each time. Maybe 3 times. I did not cum in his mouth. We wer in the back seat and he pressed his penis head on my but hole. DID NOT go in!! I told him that i do not get it in the *** and never will.  Have tried it maybe twice in my lfe. It was an in and out thing because it had no pleasure at all! Well when he was givng me oral hs tooth hit my head and i said oh u bit my dick!  After all was done. He didnt cum. Bt i did b finishing myself off onto myself. Went back to the club. He left.  When i met my friends they had a crazy look on their face and told me he is hiv+.  Well if i could have lost my mind any other time it was then. Now i have lost sleep no eating.  Im just a frikken mess. Im not myself at all! I am the most prude person u will know. I just got out of a 6 yr realtionship 11 yr befor that one And have never been this ***** that i feel i am now. I feel i for sure have hiv because of my prude lifestyle i have led. I looked as close as i can on my penis and no skin was broken. I do have a hemroid and thinking if he touched it with his head. Its not a big bloody one(sorry) just i know its there from time to time.  Was on vaca 2 wks ago and got a UTI from beng n my wet bathing suit for days. Iv had one b4 and know the feeling. Got some antibiotics for it went away but stoped takng the meds. Well i feel its back. Was feeling it b4 this happend. Does that help with getting it if my urithra was sore? I have no idea. All i know is i am not me and i am shutting down. My story above it 100% true word for word!! Please ease my mind. I know the low risk if any with oral. But the penis touchng my ***. Did not go it !! The small bite dot on my head. No skin break and the UTI. Please help. Thank u !
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You wasn't shot down you were given the facts. Should I or anyone else be labeled "That Guy" just because I have HIV? Would you like to be labeled "That Guy" if you actually had HIV? I don't believe so. You never had an exposure and to keep a negative status use a condom correctly and consistently for anal sex.
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I get the last msg. What is this site for? A blog is what? Im just a concerned person asking a question. U can read till ur blind about other people but hits harder when the answer is to YOUR question. Wow didnt think i would get so shot down on a site that should help people in this. Sorry but i didnt think i would get attacked by you. Im scaired and the last thing i need is for a steanger to step in and make fun!  Dont worry i wont open this site again! If you went thru it or is related to someone. Maybe dont JUMP on someone, call names and get pissed just by someone asking a question about their personal story. Rather just keep to yourself. Teak wouldnt have to post that if u didnt jump on me! I would have taken the answer and moved on.
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186166 tn?1385259382
oh your original post wasnt the drama part...it was the

Omg! Im doomed. I feel the lowest iv ever felt!  Im THAT GUY

THAT GUY?  teak is THAT GUY...my son is THAT GUY.  
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Was not addressed to u ! Lizzie!
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Thanks teak and for lizzie. Im sick of people calling other people drama queens. Im asking a question that was addresed to u! Im scaired and thats why im asking! Is that why u post on here ?to help people or call them drama ?   Thanks again teak ur a real help xoxoxxo
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186166 tn?1385259382
oh chill with the DrAmA ! ! !

if you had read the posts on here like you said you did...you wouldnt even be posting about your situation.
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You never had an exposure.
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I was drunk and high. That now is feeking me out because im reading it helps with contracting?? Omg! Im doomed. I feel the lowest iv ever felt!  Im THAT GUY !
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Also this man is a dentist his friends say he is very health concious. He should have told me. I dont understand why he didnt! Thats f'd up.  If he has his hiv under control will his levels be low ? Less a risk ??
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