Do i need to be afraid of HIV exposure

[norwegianboy83]

Hi, im a Norwegian married boy who are 30 years old. i have been married With same girl in 10 years and never had other sex partners.

but this week i met a escorte girl in town, she was from Europa and the firsth thing she did was to take the condom
on my penis, and then she starts having dildosex With her self on the bed and i only mastrubate and watch.
then she mastrubate me WITH condom and i finger her in her wet vagina, we never had oralsex and normalsex, she only mastrubated me With condom and i fingred her vagina and she was wet,
and now im affraid of that im hiv positiv beacuse i had some smal scraps or wounds on my fingers.. so now im
affraid as h..=(
do i need to test me ?

[dreejamba]

You have no risks of any std here. What you have is irrational anxiety about the encounter. You are not willing to accept that you are safe and your mind is taking over with all kinds of scenarios and what ifs.  I agree with Nikhil - Facts are facts - you weren't exposed and you are fine.

[Vance2335]

It is time to move on, nothing you say is going to be a risk.

[norwegianboy83]

ok thanks.. but i did forget something in my post, and that was in like 10 Seconds i did lick one breast nippel.. but understand that is no risk when fingring has no risk, em i right ?

[nursegirl6572]

If you search the web enough, you'll find all KINDS of crazy info that will scare you half to death.  That's priority number ONE...stop searching the internet, get engaged in life, and forget about this.

[norwegianboy83]

Thanks Nursegirl.. and chipdawg i dont wanna find another web page beacuse i like medhelp site =) mutch bether than we have in Norway for stuff like this! :)

I have searched enough on web and found out that in my situation it WAS a risk.. but i belive what is writing here in this page so thanks :)

[chipdawg]

yes, as nursegirl says...there was no risk. i forgot to add that in my reply.

[nursegirl6572]

You never had a risk.  ONLY unprotected vaginal or anal sex would be an HIV concern.

[chipdawg]

doctor forum here is temporarily closed. you can search the web for other websites, there are a few good ones, you should have no trouble finding them.

[norwegianboy83]

Where does i ask them? Do they read this post or do i send a question another place and pay for it?

[nikchin]

Doctors forum is unavilable for a while I guess but you can certainly ask for other experts here who are associated/are doctors or medical helpers.

[norwegianboy83]

Okeyy:) thanks m8. Do you think doctor will comment my post to? Would be great.. i belive u but for my aniexty or how it spells it would help if doctor also comment his words:)

[nikchin]

Yes you understood it right :)

[norwegianboy83]

So you meen i should just move on With my life, dont test and have sex With my wife tonight without fear :) ? so wound on my hand With vagina sekret dont infect me :) ?  do i understod right :) ?

[nikchin]

I answer basis on research, interacting with patients and doctors, reading journal enteries and watching documentries. Besides, everybody of us can understand once we start applying logic to the facts and praticality of situations for this disease :) You can verify the answer with an HIV expertise doctor and I am sure the answer would be same. I can only help you answer your query, believing it or not is up to you mate :)

[norwegianboy83]

Okey thanks. sorry for asking, but u say its not a risk, how can you say that ? is it behalf internett Reading or du you KNOW it beacuse u have study it or something :)?

[nikchin]

wound*

[nikchin]

You are welcome. Ill tell you a small secret - Even if you have driped up wound scraps on ur finger, your mind would exaggerate that what if the would was deep, bleeding etc etc. Thats human nature. You need not worry. And yes, if you cant speak proper English its fine and normal, you need not be sorry for that. What matters is you conveyed your problem and we understood it :-).

God bless and take care.

-Nikhil

[norwegianboy83]

Thanks for answer, i will never come.in this situation again.. its terrible. Sorry my bad english.. im norwegian:p
But so smal scratch or wounds who are on my fingers and inside the escort lady who was wet(vaginal sekret) and that came on my fingers with tiny soars dont are risk at all? I can have normaly sex with my wife and move on and forget this mess for 100% safety?:)

[nikchin]

Hi,

You absoulutely dont need any test. Your activities are not a risk in the above scenario. Glad to know the first thing that the escort did was using condoms on you.

You are married, being loyal to your partner and respecting her commitment is always advised :-).

Good luck to you. You can relax and have a chilled beer.

Regards,
Nikhil