Risk of mutual masturbation with transgender

[mr_hope]

Recently had encounter with transgender from thailand where i tried to give him a handjob for 1 minute or less with bare hand and didnt see any precum or semen as per my notice and touched boobs for a while as well and he also rubbing my penis against his hand only.

My question is

1.If there is some fluid(precum or semen) was there and i had a small cut or something like that on my hand.is there any chance of Hiv transmission
( to my notice there is not cut on my hand)



2.he rubbed my penis with his hand but my cloth was on so any chance he can transmit virus since he touched his penis as well.

3.Need to be tested?

[Chima7]

You did not have a risk from what you've described. As CurfewX already posted the only risks for HIV, there is no reason for you to be concerned or to seek any testing.

[mr_hope]

You guys dont know how much relief i got from these comments.May u always blessed...

[CurfewX]

The only HIV risks for adults are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative, anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles (with IV drug users)

NOTHING else you can think of is a risk for HIV, including the event you mentioned.  There is no "what if" that you could add to this scenario that would make it a risk for HIV.  You had zero risk for HIV and you do not need to test for HIV.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Your situation involves touching contact with a person which is not a risk for hiv. Therefore testing would be a waste of time, since there is nothing to test for. No worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did. Analysis of large numbers of infected people has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is effectively instantly dead in air so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and that which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.

[mr_hope]

i already saw replies about these scenerios but why im worried because it should not be a risk for my wife and even i didnt see any fluid or any cut on my hand and as he  just rubbed my penis from cloth on so as per you recomendation its a zero% risk?

Does handjob wih cloth on is more safer compare to bare penis?

one thing more if in future i have a visit again so its ok to give him a handjob without protection or receive handjob only since he belongs to a high risk community plus from thailand where they have more hiv cases?

[mr_hope]

and i was dumped before as well because that time i was involved in handjob only and untill 3 months i did 7 hiv tests and this time i just went with purpose to see the transgender and involved in this encounter.

[mr_hope]

Anxiousnomore  thansk for ur valuable remarks.Can i ask mr teak to pls sugget as well?

[bhuban]

Hi. If you don't want to transmit anything to your wife then refrain from such activities. You are 100% risk free but back in your mind you still think you had a risk so best advice is to stay away from such activities.

[mr_hope]

i have decided to not do this again ever...but for this time the only thing making issue in my mind is he was a transgender and risk is high as personwise.By keeping this activity and his gender with nationality are u convinced 100% to go ahead?

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

You have already received full and complete advice that you were never at risk for HIV.  There is nothing more for our members to add.

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