We are volunteers so you have to be patient, please. Risks for HIV include unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles. In no way is a hand job a risk for HIV. Air inactivates the virus. It doesn't matter what was on her hands. You never needed to test. After 3 months, any test is conclusive. You don't have HIV.
You were never at risk of HIV, as there was no penetration or exposure to shared needles.
Please can you answer me !